2 years... down the drain.

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It's your life, we don't know you, so you smoking or not isn't going to effect us, but that choice is going to effect YOU. You have to live with yourself and only you can decide how you want to live.

I don't know what happened at said house, but if someone told me not to vape in their house, I'm going to respect their wishes when I'm in their domain. Find new friends if need be. How old are you?
 

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well, since the appropriate thread was closed, and it seems it sort of migrated into here anyways....


I think the moral of the story is to respect what a manager or homeowner says about appropriate and inappropriate vaping...

regardless of story/situation - would you show respect some one who continues to disrespect you over and over? --- please answer.


if my vaping is similar to the kid sitting in the corner - what is to be considered on my part inappropriate? - as stated, i wasnt "chuckin clouds"and i even dropped the nicotine/flavors because its "deadly" to further accommodate his "rules" only imposed on myself.(and not the kid in the corner)
 

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well, since the appropriate thread was closed, and it seems it sort of migrated into here anyways....




regardless of story/situation - would you show respect some one who continues to disrespect you over and over? --- please answer.


if my vaping is similar to the kid sitting in the corner - what is to be considered on my part inappropriate? - as stated, i wasnt "chuckin clouds"and i even dropped the nicotine/flavors because its "deadly" to further accommodate his "rules" only imposed on myself.(and not the kid in the corner)

I don't ever let others make me angry, short of someone messing with one of my ladies, in which case I put them down. If I get angry, the other person wins, and I never like to lose...
 

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im seriously getting to the point, im tempted to just completely drop vaping and go back to smoking cigarettes


no matter how much money i save, however many lung cells im saving, no matter how much i enjoy it, NOBODY wants the truth. i had absolutly no issues with people when i was a smoker, but now that i vape, every one and their grandma seems to want to attack on the activity

Don't want to piss off the grandma's.
 

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Man screw what other people think.. This is all about YOU and you making things better for you. I work at a Pavilions grocery store (you know Vons's rich uppity version of their store) and sit outside one of the doors on my breaks and vape (while Im reading this forum usually) and I get some weird looks from some of the old entitled rich folks who have their heads so far up their butts they dont even know whats going on outside their little bubble but seriously fk em. I get enough people that walk by and ask me how its working for me/what mod is that/what tank is that/how can i get my wife to quit/etc, that it makes me feel good when I get to pass on information and hopefully help someone break the cycle. I get the best reactions when I tell em I make my own juice and dont have to pay $15 for 15ml at a B&M ripoff too.

The people that walk around with their cigs in their hands acting all high and mighty make me sick now, and I cant wait for them to reap what theyve sown if thats the way theyre going to act about it. To each his own, let me do mine and go do your thing, just dont step on my toes, I wont have to punch yours. Keep vaping, if nothing else you can feel more sophisticated and be happy that youre going to outlive all the haters. Bonus points for the fact that you can actually taste and smell your food and whatnot now too.
 

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completely regarless of where you are, or what happened


would you show respect some one who continues to disrespect you over and over? --- please answer the question stevegmu

No I wouldn't. But if I am in there home, and they piss me off - I leave.

Hell why would I even go over to someones place if they disrespect me anyway?

Get some new friends and keep vaping my son.
 

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completely regarless of where you are, or what happened


would you show respect some one who continues to disrespect you over and over? --- please answer the question stevegmu

I wouldn't have anything to do with them. No bad feelings. Why let them bother me? I am the king of Prague, after all...
 

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This is the last thing I'm going to say here, At first, I thought you were having a tough time with something and needed some support, which happens to us all from time to time, there's nothing wrong with that. But as I read more and more of this thread, it sounds like A) even though you change what you're vaping in order to somehow please this other person (which I already don't get) you say in this thread that you have no reason to respect them because they don't respect you. Okay, well, then why are you there, and why, in one second you're bending over backwards to make them happy, and in the next you're angry and say they don't deserve your respect, and even challenge someone as to how or why you should? B) What little I can make of your argument is basically "it's ok for him, so why shouldn't I?" which, frankly, is just childish. C) I kind of touched on this already, but you are confronting people (again, like a child) who are only trying to give you advice, in a thread you started, which, now that I think about it, didn't even have a question, but just wanted to alert all of us to a personal crisis, which everyone tried to help you with. This leads to my conclusion, D) that you are, in reality, just a brat who's throwing a tantrum to get attention. I hope, for your sake, I am wrong.
 

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Only you know what's best for you. We have all been in similar situations and cope with them in our own way. If you feel like you want to and can quit vaping without returning to smoking, then that's awesome, but PLEASE do not let those around you force you back into combustible tobacco. It doesn't matter if they can't see the improvements you have it's up to you and is your choice if you want to vape or not. :)
 

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This is the last thing I'm going to say here, At first, I thought you were having a tough time with something and needed some support, which happens to us all from time to time, there's nothing wrong with that. But as I read more and more of this thread, it sounds like A) even though you change what you're vaping in order to somehow please this other person (which I already don't get) you say in this thread that you have no reason to respect them because they don't respect you. Okay, well, then why are you there, and why, in one second you're bending over backwards to make them happy, and in the next you're angry and say they don't deserve your respect, and even challenge someone as to how or why you should? i was at a firend of a ffirned house, helping them with filming a movie. i have ben to this house repeadity to help, with no issues of vaping - since upgrading vape equiptment, i was told that "smoking isnt allowed" and i should stop, yet this rule only applies to me and not my friend thats sitting in the corner using an evod. when i asked why its not allowed, he said the second hand smoke is clouding the house and poison ect..(prior to this talk, i have knowladge of one or both his parent smoke a pipe in the house, more so the kitchen since thats where the pipe and tobacco equiptment is located). following the "its poisen" notion he put out, i switched my juice to pure VG, no nic or flavorings. B) What little I can make of your argument is basically "it's ok for him, so why shouldn't I?" which, frankly, is just childish. parent(s) are fine smoking in the house, the kid in the corner is vaping, yet im being singled out for no reason - i find that being childish, as apparently "the beef" isnt with the vaping--- in the thread that this stemed from, i played nice untill i was continued to be fed excuses.C) I kind of touched on this already, but you are confronting people (again, like a child) who are only trying to give you advice, in a thread you started, which, now that I think about it, didn't even have a question, but just wanted to alert all of us to a personal crisis, which everyone tried to help you with.certain people confronted, are people who followed in here from the original "argument" This leads to my conclusion, D) that you are, in reality, just a brat who's throwing a tantrum to get attention. I hope, for your sake, I am wrong. a tantrum? im sorry my feelings have cause you greif, please just ignore the thread.

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Look, just step outside. Simple... Done.

I have vaped in p's house on prior smaller devices over the past 3 years. No issue, but I breathed out slowly and upward... Ie, not much cloud. Now my cousin when he got into vaping during that time started with more high powered mods (now has a massive box mod) and always went outside to vape. Reason, that thing puts out clouds like a diesel engine w an exhaust problem. Its common sense. "Non vapers" generally don't want to sit in a cumulous cloud... Especially in there own house.

Simple common sense and respect. Hell, I pull vapes in movie theaters, but I sit up high, to the side edge(2 seaters mostly) and exhale slowly and discreetly. No one ever notices.
 
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My last post here - Sorry now I followed you to this thread. I've given you much heartfelt advice that I normally save for my own son, only to be lumped in with the other 'grandmas' who are on a 'witch hunt' 'attacking' you.
Basically anyone who doesn't agree with you is calling you 'stupid' and 'ignorant' (your words from the other thread).
So someone doesn't want you to use a larger device in their house. Because of that you post this thread threatening to go back to smoking.
It's time to grow up. You are responsible for you. No one else is. Throughout life many people are going to disagree with you. Get rid of the anger now and get over your 'poor me' mentality or you're gonna have a tough time. With that I'm finished here. Continue to stew all you want while the rest of the world keeps moving forward.
 

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Your answers are in RED

Friend of a Friend
Not your friend
Never made a bond

Third wheel now having feelings hurt. Sorry to inform, but life is like that.
You seem to intimidate the other person and they are uncomfortable and letting you know it.

Regardless, it is their home and you are the guest. Give the person space and accept it is their home.
 

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My last post here - Sorry now I followed you to this thread. I've given you much heartfelt advice that I normally save for my own son, only to be lumped in with the other 'grandmas' who are on a 'witch hunt' 'attacking' you.If you feel like a "grandma" then, thats how you feel - at least you can be honest about it.
Basically anyone who doesn't agree with you is calling you 'stupid' and 'ignorant' (your words from the other thread).not that someone didnt agree, but how things were conveyed. one of the last post - guy said he would of punched me in the face - if thats how he feels, ok atleast he was man enough to say it and not bull :censored: it
So someone doesn't want you to use a larger device in their house. if thats how you equate it? the device maybe bigger, but vape density or cloud was pretty much the same as before. i cant say it enough - you guys want to try it yourself, 1.8 ohm coil 28G at 7 watts. just VG. Because of that you post this thread threatening to go back to smoking.threatened is a very strong word. i was expressing how i feel, and to be honest, ive ben contemplating it alot lately, moreso today after that last thread. my bad, i didnt know that expressing how i feel on here was threatining.
It's time to grow up. You are responsible for you.the point. im taking further action. if vaping turned me into a social pariah then why not go back to how things were, and have less social problems No one else is. Throughout life many people are going to disagree with you. Get rid of the anger now and get over your 'poor me' mentality or you're gonna have a tough time. With that I'm finished here. Continue to stew all you want while the rest of the world keeps moving forward.

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