2 years... down the drain.

[Amraann]

No, you should not have said anything to the other vapor or the parents.

No one said you were disrespectful for being honest, you were disrespectful for continuing to vape once you were asked not to.

I do not think that anyone feels in any way threatened by this thread. You are not being attacked for expressing how you feel. You shared a situation that happened and you got the opinions of others about that situation.
That is not an attack.
Basically most feel that when asked not to vape in anothers house, one should stop vaping. Sharing your knowledge about vaaping with that person is fine. But that does not mean you will sway their opinion or that you should still vape in their home because you feel they are wrong.

 

[defdock]

all im getting from this is - because its some ones house and they asked you to stop, i understand - bu the flip side i see is

even if its water, and some one in the house is taking a shower - if im told to stop drinking water because im flooding the house and drowing people - im just supposts to drop the water and stop?------common sence here people.


as its pointed out many times in the thread "respect is earned not given" - ive respected the house as much as anyone else in the room with us at that point in time, i was lied to(disrespected) over multiple times, yet im still expected to show "respect" to someone who has absolutly no respect for me?

 

[Rizzyking]

I'm out this is a waste of time op go back to tobacco because that's what you WANT to do just do it and stop trying to make the world and everyone in it your excuse.

 

[crxess]

all im getting from this is - because its some ones house and they asked you to stop, i understand - bu the flip side i see is

even if its water, and some one in the house is taking a shower - if im told to stop drinking water because im flooding the house and drowing people - im just supposts to drop the water and stop?------common sence here people.


as its pointed out many times in the thread "respect is earned not given" - ive respected the house as much as anyone else in the room with us at that point in time, i was lied to(disrespected) over multiple times, yet im still expected to show "respect" to someone who has absolutly no respect for me?

yes you are.

Maybe it is time to exit stage left. Not your home, not your rules.
If you are unable or unwilling to work toward an amicable solution you really need to get away from the environment.

 

[VictorC]

Ignore idiots, not your health.

 

[electricbamboo]

all im getting from this is - because its some ones house and they asked you to stop, i understand - bu the flip side i see is

even if its water, and some one in the house is taking a shower - if im told to stop drinking water because im flooding the house and drowing people - im just supposts to drop the water and stop?------common sence here people.

common sense and common courtesy dictates that if it is someone else's home and they ask you to stop doing something, you stop or leave.

 

[skoony]

you guys are all right -


instead of listening to the kid telling me its poison - and eventualy bending backwards to change juice and the rest - i should have just stopped vaping completely then tell the kid in the corner to stop because were going to kill every one. should also appologize to the parents for making the house smell like "baby poop", and explain to them they need to stop smoking in the house, they are killing their kid.


i was completely disrespectful by being honest.


and again - sorry if anyone feels THREATENED that i made this thread. --- this incident happened over 2 weeks ago, i didnt expect sharing it would cause an uproar. also didnt expect to be attack for expressing how i felt.

when did the kid and his parents get involved?
did i miss a post?
mike

 

[ReigntheGamer]

all im getting from this is - because its some ones house and they asked you to stop, i understand - bu the flip side i see is

even if its water, and some one in the house is taking a shower - if im told to stop drinking water because im flooding the house and drowing people - im just supposts to drop the water and stop?------common sence here people.


as its pointed out many times in the thread "respect is earned not given" - ive respected the house as much as anyone else in the room with us at that point in time, i was lied to(disrespected) over multiple times, yet im still expected to show "respect" to someone who has absolutly no respect for me?

If they disrespect you then why are you so concerned with hanging out and vaping with them? Chunk them the deuce and move along, just tell your friend you won't be hanging out with them over there. End of story. Period. Point blank. Situation handled.

 

[Amraann]

all im getting from this is - because its some ones house and they asked you to stop, i understand - bu the flip side i see is

even if its water, and some one in the house is taking a shower - if im told to stop drinking water because im flooding the house and drowing people - im just supposts to drop the water and stop?------common sence here people.


as its pointed out many times in the thread "respect is earned not given" - ive respected the house as much as anyone else in the room with us at that point in time, i was lied to(disrespected) over multiple times, yet im still expected to show "respect" to someone who has absolutly no respect for me?

Yes, even if it is water you are suppose to drop the water and stop. I understand that your reasoning is that the friend was being unreasonable and you dislike the unfairness of that. BUT it is his house he can be unreasonable and is not required to be fair!

You did not rescpect the house as much as anyone else. The other vapor was not asked to stop. For whatever reason, you were.
Yes, in someone elses home you are expected to be respectful. If you feel that you were lied to and disrespected then your option is to leave.

I do not understand why in that situation one would do something to make the situation worse and not just leave?
Was this person a lousy host? Yes and they can be in their own home.

Lets say for example I am sitting in my home drinking a few beers and someone comes over and wants to drink. I have every right to tell them not to in my house or on my property.
Hypicritical? Maybe. But that does not mean the person can ignore my rules and do whatever they wish. They can leave and go elsewhere and do what they wish there.

 

[IM_ALL_IN]

OP trollin? If not, I suggest talking to someone professionally.

 

[DrMA]

Ignore the sociopathic criminals and do whatever feels right for you.

However, my humble advice is you keep vaping and ask the abusers to shut the F up

Ammunition:
Briefing on the science and policy of e-cigarettes and vaping « The counterfactual

 

[Amraann]

OP trollin? If not, I suggest talking to someone professionally.

Based on his post count he is obviously not a troll. Your post is just rude.You clearly missed the mod warning to not attack another per forum rules.

 

[ReigntheGamer]

I'd love to tell someone to stop something in my house and them call me an "abuser" and start spouting off internet links. It wouldn't end well for them.

Just because we know it does not mean everyone has to conform to it. Flies with honey not vinegar my friends.

 

[skoony]

Based on his post count he is obviously not a troll. Your post is just rude.You clearly missed the mod warning to not attack another per forum rules.

could some one explain why calling someone out is the same
as abusing them.
i want to be clear on this as me thinks i should have been booted
many posts ago.

mike

 

[Asbestos4004]

I got booted... I'm sure I can't answer that for you Mike. But, I'm sure there was a good reason.

 

[ReigntheGamer]

could some one explain why calling someone out is the same
as abusing them.
i want to be clear on this as me thinks i should have been booted
many posts ago.

mike

Cause this is ECF it's only acceptible to call out people and call them names if they are suggesting vaping should be done with courtesy in public. And not cram it down people's throats because we believe it's harmless so vape in where you fit in, to be a politically minded vaping hero.

I think I need a Wingnut badge in my signature, cause vaping radical I am not.

 

[IM_ALL_IN]

Based on his post count he is obviously not a troll. Your post is just rude.You clearly missed the mod warning to not attack another per forum rules.

How is my post rude? This entire thread and the logic behind it is irrational, hence the reason why I suggested professional help. If he's not a troll, and post count doesn't = not trolling, then I suggest help. IDK why you or any mod would have a problem with my statement. Something isn't right.

 

[defdock]

Cause this is ECF it's only acceptible to call out people and call them names if they are suggesting vaping should be done with courtesy in public. And not cram it down people's throats because we believe it's harmless so vape in where you fit in, to be a politically minded vaping hero.

I think I need a Wingnut badge in my signature, cause vaping radical I am not.

not to "cram is down" any ones throat, but to end the spell of lies - yes, using google to bring up information that disproves his lies - lies in which he was only implying on myself and singling me out. if he would of just said what he really though it probbaly wouldnt have ended up going the way it did.

I'd love to tell someone to stop something in my house and them call me an "abuser" and start spouting off internet links. It wouldn't end well for them.

Just because we know it does not mean everyone has to conform to it. Flies with honey not vinegar my friends.

so, because your in your house, its completely fine to lie to some one over and over and then - "not end well" with them when they call you out on the lies. good to know thats what kind of person you are.

 

[ReigntheGamer]

not to "cram is down" any ones throat, but to end the spell of lies - yes, using google to bring up information that disproves his lies - lies in which he was only implying on myself and singling me out. if he would of just said what he really though it probbaly wouldnt have ended up going the way it did.




so, because your in your house, its completely fine to lie to some one over and over and then - "not end well" with them when they call you out on the lies. good to know thats what kind of person you are.

I wouldn't ever pull something like this so please keep your assumptions about my character to yourself. Tyvm.

ETA: Your transposing my comments into your situation and I wasn't there, the fact remains you were asked to stop and wanted to show studies and reasons why they were wrong and it wasn't taken well and you're upset. Not everyone is going to immediately back pedal after your Google links and allow you to proceed that is life you will have to deal with that at some point.

 

[Asbestos4004]

I have it on good authority, that ReigntheGamer is an excellent individual. I don't appreciate you implying otherwise.