Yeah I hope to never become one of those smoker haters cause I feel like I would be a complete hypocrite, and I always hated them as a smoker. Most of my friends smoke, and i can tolerate being around it, but it smells nasty. Now I understand nonsmokers point of view.
I don't think you ever could become that way, based on your post.
I used to openly tell non-smokers to never try a cigarette when I smoked, but I obviously never tried to change the mind of people that were also smokers.
Even though I don't smoke anymore, I totally understand why smokers are currently smoking (besides being a super strong habit, hey, it's also an addiction!), and I'm not going to turn into one of the nagging people I hated when I smoked.
Now I'll just vape alongside them and answer any questions if they ask. And maybe brag about how yummy a new flavor I've tried is tasting, and let them try if they ask me about vaping.
I definitely agree that trying to force something on a current smoker is not the way to help them at all. We used to hate those comments, and obviously they still do, too! It would be so hypocritical to switch now and start lecturing. I don't think most ex-smokers go that route.
Sharing the awesome things about vaping though, without mentioning any need to quit smoking, now that I don't have any problem doing.