Cartos vs clearos. It's so subjective, and you will find plenty of people who love or hate them , either one. But if you're not liking clearos, and I think that's what I understood. The try a cartomizer. I know people love them and maybe ill figure it out one of these days, but i have nothing but bad experiences with clearomizers, i've come to hate them. For a couple of bucks at least you will know if you like it/or it's right for you. I started vaping in 2009, ran into a wall kinda like you after spending a bunch o money, having no real success and getting monumentally frustrated, I DID run to the circle K a d vanished from the vaping world for a few years. I'd love to see that NOT happen to you. And I'm thinking it wont because youre already showing you are smarter than me by coming here and asking for help. There are so many people here who can and will help you over this "hump", violetsoda's post being an awesome example. You can definately do it if you want to make it work. There has already been a ton of good advice tossed your way, I'll share what did the trick for me and why. It was these ego mega batteries and some ego mega dual coil cartos. It could basically get me thru a whole day with no hassle. And hassle is the death knell when your trying to switch over in my opinion. I'm not telling you to go buy this, but for me it was the watershed moment. Egos seem to be a great starting off option, and there are enough options with them that you can find one that will work for you. I'm getting off track, there are plenty of people better to give you technical advice. I just wanted to encourage you to not give up on it. Even if you are still smoking while you work the kinks out, doesn't mean it's a failure. Just keep working through and you will find a solution that works for you! I so wished I woulda just slowed down a bit 3 years ago, but that's just water under the bridge and I'm not beating myself up for it. I'm now 30 days without a cigarette for the first time in 25 years.
I know it's frustrating as all get out at the moment, but stick with it, you'll be glad you did.