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Hi all hope everyone is having a great day!

Finally filed for divorce today after 2 yrs and 5 months seperation. Of course that isn't much time compared to 31 yrs of marriage. Anyhoo, my days are looking lots brighter with that weight off of my shoulders.

Computer parts ordered so now the wait begins. Oh, oh and oh finally tax refund was in the bank today so my dwiddleing savings (from computer parts) is partially refurbished so that's a good thang. Ya know when Life gives you lemons, make lemonade!
 

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Evening Trippyville,
Been a busy few days as has become the norm of late. Still catching up but thankfully under 10 pages this time.
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I think the small donut rocks and love the GITD aspect. The second is also in my size range and love the swirl. Two righteous acquisitions from Vapor Leaf and the Sale I'll assume. Awesome VV REO by the way!! Brew
 

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Howdy folks!

Had another interview today. Ready to be in work mode and out of interview mode. It's really mentally exhausting!

Reidus, you had me at ganache. I'm filing that recipe away for later. Sorry the convection isn't working, but you are definitely one step closer to having a working stove again!

Hugs to DWC, I know you must be exhausted. Thank goodness you're a Dragon Warrior!

Willow, I waiting about 2 and half years after separating from my first hubby before I filed for divorce. We just never got around to it until I started dating again and it just seemed weird. You will feel so liberated and free when it's all done. Hugs to you!

Hope everyone else is doing fantastic. I need to go make my hubby some dinner as I napped the early evening away. I'm thinking grilled cheese and tomato soup because I am just not feeling the cooking tonight, lol.
 

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Doing well Fudgey and taking life a day at a time. I typically wake up in a good mood and go from there. I just had some Whopper Mini Robin Eggs (24 to be exact) and still expect to have lost about 3 lbs. since last Friday. Still doing the treadmill for 45-60minutes, 6 days a week. If I can manage all 3lbs this week then that's 16 pounds since Christmas...:thumbs: Just 60 more to go :shock: However I'm giving myself about 12-14 months to do it. Then it's about 2000-2200 calories a day with a little less intense daily workout and I'm good to go in maintenance mode. No weird food, no killer workouts and no unrealistic diets....I expect to be able to maintain this well into my 70s and beyond if I watch how much I let myself eat. 2200 calories is really a lot now that I have a better understanding of what I'm consuming. If I splurge a day then the others in the week will make up for it. Binging is over but I think I can live without eating an entire crave case myself (White Castle reference). Brew

It's going pretty good, taking off on Friday and going to OKC just to get out of town for the day.

How are you doing?
 

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Willow, I waiting about 2 and half years after separating from my first hubby before I filed for divorce. We just never got around to it until I started dating again and it just seemed weird. You will feel so liberated and free when it's all done. Hugs to you!

Hope everyone else is doing fantastic. I need to go make my hubby some dinner as I napped the early evening away. I'm thinking grilled cheese and tomato soup because I am just not feeling the cooking tonight, lol.

Well, I haven't started dating YET but now I'm excited about that part of my life again for sure.
I love grilled cheese and tomato soup dinners.
 

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Hi all hope everyone is having a great day!

Finally filed for divorce today after 2 yrs and 5 months seperation. Of course that isn't much time compared to 31 yrs of marriage. Anyhoo, my days are looking lots brighter with that weight off of my shoulders.

Computer parts ordered so now the wait begins. Oh, oh and oh finally tax refund was in the bank today so my dwiddleing savings (from computer parts) is partially refurbished so that's a good thang. Ya know when Life gives you lemons, make lemonade!
((((((Willow))))) or leamon bars those are YUMMY:p


Just popping in to saying good night tripsters:)
 

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Evening all. God im exhausted! Today was supposed to be my day off but that didnt work. Its gonna be a long week till next tues. I meet with lawyers Tues and have my arbitration Wed. Im nervous and confident at the same time lol. I've never felt like that before im always either. I just hope i can keep my cool with them and there attitude towards gays.

DW i hope your doing ok /comforts and hugs

Reidus you sound like quite the Chef. Fyi im a trained chef if you ever want to chat about foodie stuff let me know. I love that stuff lol.

Willow YOU GO GIRL! Get out there and make those guys work for it!!!!! And if they mess with you just tell them you have a 6`2 300lb gay man waiting to kick someones .... lol.

Ok Misplacedsooner you better show us what you bought lol!!!!
 
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Evening all. God im exhausted! Today was supposed to be my day off but that didnt work. Its gonna be a long week till next tues. I meet with lawyers Tues and have my arbitration Wed. Im nervous and confident at the same time lol. I've never felt like that before im always either. I just hope i can keep my cool with them and there attitude towards gays.

DW i hope your doing ok /comforts and hugs

Reidus you sound like quite the Chef. Fyi im a trained chef if you ever want to chat about foodie stuff let me know. I love that stuff lol.

Willow YOU GO GIRL! Get out there and make those guys work for it!!!!! And if they mess with you just tell them you have a 6`2 300lb gay man waiting to kick someones .... lol.

Ok Misplacedsooner you better show us what you bough lol!!!!

:blush: thanks, I'll remember that. I'm not ready nor do I want a "relationship" right now, I just want a good FWB or is that a F w/good B.......:blink:

Now you use those nerves and that confidence as a powerful weapon in your arsenal. Nerves can be a powerful fuel for energy and combine that with confidence and your beliefs and show em how it's done.
 
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Thats what i ment a FWB lol show them whos the boss! lol And thanks for the support. My nerves have been on end all day and ill prob be this way till the arbitration is over. I just hope i dont get short with anyone till then lol. When my nerves are like this i can get a bit .....y lol. Makes me feel like male PMS :p
 

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"When my nerves are like this i can get a bit .....y lol", oh man, I sooooo understand! Think I needs a glass of wine when I'm that way.:toast: Shoot let's just add candle light and music and make it a slow Par...tay. That's always a good way for me to glitch my .....y self, lol.
 
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Tjloa you will be fine just have a vision of being calm and in control and don't lower yourself to their level. They may try to goud you but don't buy it. Go with a plan and come out a winner. You can do this.
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Thanks DW i will def keep that in mind. Its just that meeting the lawyer the day before makes me nervous too. We have only met one other time and we havent preped for this so i hope he has a good plan in mind and puts me at ease. I have already made it clear to him if they start going in the direction that is personel and none of thier business i will convay that. I've had enough of being bullied cause of who i am.

How are you doing?
 

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Good Morning TrippyTipsKinz :)

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I got on the scale yesterday and got some good news :D Another 3 pounds gone making it 13 so far!
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I've been such a couch potato for so long that exercising 3 or 4 times a week is really kicking my metabolism into gear! :laugh: But the couch potato in me is not going down without a fight :facepalm: :laugh: I can't wait till exercise feels less like a burden and more like back in the day (say mid-twenties) when a day without exercise was like a morning without coffee! :laugh:

Willowkinz and TJ {{{{{huggles}}}}

Happy Day to all :wub:
 
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