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Robert Cromwell

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If I can't justify my existence then I can't exist. It just wouldn't be rational. I spent three hours today making a chart on why I should and shouldn't take my ex back.

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Sorry but I am no help at all on advise about EX's.

My ex wife did give me a boost in self esteem though. Anytime I felt truly worthless I just thought about her and knew there was at least one that was more worthless than I.
 
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    If I can't justify my existence then I can't exist. It just wouldn't be rational. I spent three hours today making a chart on why I should and shouldn't take my ex back.

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    If she's an EX, then maybe that's how it should remain -- in the past .... Keep moving forward with new things in your life. You have lots of time ahead of you.
     

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    If she's an EX, then maybe that's how it should remain -- in the past .... Keep moving forward with new things in your life. You have lots of time ahead of you.
    She was an ex do to my stupidity and me pushing her away. I shouldn't have done that she is wife material and can except me for who I am even with my jagged rough edges and all of my faults.

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    She was an ex do to my stupidity and me pushing her away. I shouldn't have done that she is wife material and can except me for who I am even with my jagged rough edges and all of my faults.

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    oh I see -- well maybe it will work.... But she is probably apprehensive that you may run away from her again?
     

    Luke95

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    oh I see -- well maybe it will work.... But she is probably apprehensive that you may run away from her again?
    Yes. But I think she now understand why I run.


    So my first girl friend cried rape on me when her parents found out about us. Then the next one I walked in on with two guys at once. It is hard for me to be able to extend any feeling and when I hit a problem in a relationship that comes back up every time.

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    Yes. But I think she now understand why I run.


    So my first girl friend cried rape on me when her parents found out about us. Then the next one I walked in on with two guys at once. It is hard for me to be able to extend any feeling and when I hit a problem in a relationship that comes back up every time.

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    The types of situations that you mention are difficult ones for anybody to handle, normal or not.
     

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    Running from my past doesn't help. It makes it very hard for me to hold a relationship. And we did date for a year and a half before I ....ed this all up on us. Now I am upset by her latest actions but I have zero claim to control on it. It is rough on me and when I can't think I have to make a chart to figure out stuff in life. So it is rougher for me I think than a normal person.

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    Luke95

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    I run into these mental blocks with people because my mind doesn't relate. I am able to hold a conversation normally. But it is so hard to just deal with ..... I can make a machine work because kg follows in general set laws on operation. People don't have these. It is hard for me to understand and let people in.

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    tight wad?
    This is the part of the program where I just bust into this thread without knowing what's going on. I am only joking of course. Howdy there Brother..!! I can say that much at any rate. Hope all is well with you and all these fun kind of things > :w00t:
     

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    This is the part of the program where I just bust into this thread without knowing what's going on. I am only joking of course. Howdy there Brother..!! I can say that much at any rate. Hope all is well with you and all these fun kind of things > :w00t:

    Things are fine. Couldn't be better.
     
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