Lizzie, Sandy is right some days its one step forward and 10 steps back but every training session needs to be short and end on a positive note. Every minute you spend with Wiseguy your both in training and learning to communicate with each other. Grooming is great,I go out and drink coffee while mine eat.
Bonding takes time,sometimes yrs. Every time your with Wiseguy he's teaching you how to communicate with him. Its a learning time for both of you. So don't think he doesn't like you,he has no reason not to like you he's training you to.Your both learning.
Just like this abused cat that I adopted that Blues was kind enough to help me with, its taken a yr for her to train me how to communicate with her and multiple scratches. Once she got me trained we're fine. Sounds crazy right? Far from it--how many times do dog owners get up to let their dogs out to play knowing they have already been outside? Or gets up to get them a treat,or plays with them when they bring a toy? Millie has to be rubbed first thing when I walk in the study,if I don't she'll hiss and scratch at me. So who's trained ? Me. Millie also refuses to drink out of her water dish if I'm up she'll howl until I get up and let her drink out of the ba
throom sink.
She has me well trained.
Us humans are funny we say our pets are "spoiled" that's our way of saying our animals have trained us well. When we say our pets are spoiled rotten that means our pets have trained us very well. We don't like to admit that animals are smarter than we are but in truth they really are IMO