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SandySu

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Lis, are you really looking for a flesh-and-blood girlfriend in your own city? I have a strategy for you. For real. Even if you're shy, I think this is your best bet. Join some club or activity where there are mostly women. If you are the only male, they will pay more attention to you and you won't have to try so hard as you would if you were just one of many. Join a ballet class, maybe. Or I was in a pilates class for a while, and there was only one man in that. Horseback riding English style is another predominantly female thing. Take a riding class with a group. Be sure it's English, not Western, though. There are more men who ride Western, probably because of cowboys on TV letting them know that men can do that. There are probably other activities, clubs, classes, or groups you could join where it's mostly females. Maybe others would help you think of more choices till you find one that appeals to you. Good luck.
 

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Lis, are you really looking for a flesh-and-blood girlfriend in your own city? I have a strategy for you. For real. Even if you're shy, I think this is your best bet. Join some club or activity where there are mostly women. If you are the only male, they will pay more attention to you and you won't have to try so hard as you would if you were just one of many. Join a ballet class, maybe. Or I was in a pilates class for a while, and there was only one man in that. Horseback riding English style is another predominantly female thing. Take a riding class with a group. Be sure it's English, not Western, though. There are more men who ride Western, probably because of cowboys on TV letting them know that men can do that. There are probably other activities, clubs, classes, or groups you could join where it's mostly females. Maybe others would help you think of more choices till you find one that appeals to you. Good luck.

Those are good ideas. Lis you should listen.
 

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Lis, are you really looking for a flesh-and-blood girlfriend in your own city? I have a strategy for you. For real. Even if you're shy, I think this is your best bet. Join some club or activity where there are mostly women. If you are the only male, they will pay more attention to you and you won't have to try so hard as you would if you were just one of many. Join a ballet class, maybe. Or I was in a pilates class for a while, and there was only one man in that. Horseback riding English style is another predominantly female thing. Take a riding class with a group. Be sure it's English, not Western, though. There are more men who ride Western, probably because of cowboys on TV letting them know that men can do that. There are probably other activities, clubs, classes, or groups you could join where it's mostly females. Maybe others would help you think of more choices till you find one that appeals to you. Good luck.
Sandy !!!!! We are trying to help the poor guy !!!!! :facepalm: :lol:
 

JerryRM

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Too much desperation in his search for a woman. Definitely not a vocation to the priesthood. As much as the Church needs Spanish-speaking priests, I just don't think they would take his application seriously.
Ah, but Omg, you probably have never heard of Father Cutie (yes that's his real name). Lis has probably heard of him.
 

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Sandy !!!!! We are trying to help the poor guy !!!!! :facepalm: :lol:

And I wasn't trying to help him? I was offering options. Options are good. Maybe he and Terry are not a match made in heaven, and he should turn his focus elsewhere.

Then again, maybe he enjoys cyber-flirting. Being the rejected lover. Or maybe he just likes to flirt with someone far, far away.
 

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Lis, are you really looking for a flesh-and-blood girlfriend in your own city? I have a strategy for you. For real. Even if you're shy, I think this is your best bet. Join some club or activity where there are mostly women. If you are the only male, they will pay more attention to you and you won't have to try so hard as you would if you were just one of many. Join a ballet class, maybe. Or I was in a pilates class for a while, and there was only one man in that. Horseback riding English style is another predominantly female thing. Take a riding class with a group. Be sure it's English, not Western, though. There are more men who ride Western, probably because of cowboys on TV letting them know that men can do that. There are probably other activities, clubs, classes, or groups you could join where it's mostly females. Maybe others would help you think of more choices till you find one that appeals to you. Good luck.

nice advises :D now I am not really looking for a relationship but I do not know what to tell you about riding a horse, last time i was riding a horse I was almost killed and it was the same day a horse hurt Cristopher river (superman) I am not scared to ride a horse again if i have to but i would not do it just as a hobby
 

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And I wasn't trying to help him? I was offering options. Options are good. Maybe he and Terry are not a match made in heaven, and he should turn his focus elsewhere.

Then again, maybe he enjoys cyber-flirting. Being the rejected lover. Or maybe he just likes to flirt with someone far, far away.
It was the ballet lessons, Sandy. That would destroy him. :p
 

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nice advises :D now I am not really looking for a relationship but I do not know what to tell you about riding a horse, last time i was riding a horse I was almost killed and it was the same day a horse hurt Cristopher river (superman) I am not scared to ride a horse again if i have to but i would not do it just as a hobby

Not looking for a relationship? :confused: Then what are you looking for. You could find a one night stand in a bar. :facepalm:
 
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