I admire the reasoning and the positive values of the people who said that they don't vape and didn't smoke in front of their kids and applaud them for that. But, alas, for me, it was/is different since I never make/made an attempt to hide what I did/do. I wish my little 'uns (1.5 and 3 years old) lived in a perfect world but they don't.
Once, back in the day as a smoker, I went on a church retreat for a weekend where they had a (yes, one) bench marked out on a 50 acre spread including castle where 'people who simply couldn't refrain' could smoke. I was the lone visitor to that bench for 3 days (two others who smoked were so shamed that they hid or went off the grounds). My logic then - and now - was/is 'if I have to sneak around to do something and feel bad/criminal/sinful or whatever about it while doing it, then I must truly be doing something wrong and, consequently, I should question my choice to continue with that action. I can't live like that so I am always completely obvious about whatever I am doing. Smoking was bad but I was open about it. vaping is good, so...
Thank you! You said it so much better than I ever could have.
I guess I'll just take them on one at a time and educate when I can/ignore when I can't.