My dad is a prize, to be sure. However, he was a single father (that doesn't excuse him) and he did try the best he could. He's actually mellowed out with age. He did some things right and it's not like I made things any easier, I had my own share of problems. I can't blame my father for my issues or my wrong choices in life, those were my decisions and I accept those, it's what made me who I am today. The trick is not repeating the cycle, for the most part (if not all), I am not repeating the cycle. The rest of my family is amazed (read pleasantly surprised) that I have become who I am today. I share a lot of experiences with a lot of people. Maybe we are lost soul mates? 




