OK woohoo! Got the darn thing out finally, a friend pulled it out with his needle nose pliers, I had almost given up, and had just thrown it in the trash actually...plate and spike came out without the wick and hat...got it out and fluffed and soaked it in some IPA...there was no wick sticking up above the hat so I pulled it up a bit with tweezers...put it back in the spike from the bottom...got it in now, time to test it out, going to still be wet from the soak, so update later.....fingers crossed...
Congrats Jennie!!! Let me know how it works!