Thank you for all the good advise. I tried tonight changing the way I inhale... mouth to lung and I feel like it makes a difference. I'm hoping I'll just be one of those people who wakes up and is like eww cigarettes taste nasty! I've been smoking for 15 years now, time to make a serious change.
For some people, it's very sudden, as you say; lots of folks round here say they never smoked again after getting their first e-cig. But for the majority of us, it takes a little longer; anywhere from maybe a week to a month, and for some, from several months to several years, before they were really done with smoking.
For me, as I said, it took about a month of gradually increasing vaping while I gradually decreased smoking -- basically, trying to substitute vaping for smoking for as many cigarettes as I could; sometimes, needing to go smoke, but telling myself, well I'll just vape for now, and in a while if I still really want a cigarette, I'll go have one; negotiating yourself out of smoking, when you have a good substitute like vaping, isn't too hard. But towards the end, it seemed like that 2-yr-old in my brain was so antsy about smoking, it was driving me crazy; when I finally said that's it, no more, smoking is finished, the 2-yr-old finally shut up and gave me some peace -- but if there is still even the slightest reservation in your MIND about smoking, then your BRAIN will use that slight reservation as a jumping-off point, to try and get what it needs. On the other hand, pressure is counterproductive; if you just can't negotiate yourself out of the cigarette, then go have it -- ENJOY it! -- it's easier to relax with the negotiation if there is no pressure.
The tallying up of cigarettes smoked, letting you compete with the previous day's total, is a very effective technique -- it seems like a silly mind game, and it is, but silly mind games are sometimes what is necessary to deal with a 2-yr-old. Always bear in mind, that having "just one," just serves to perpetuate the addiction, and the longer you perpetuate the addiction, the harder it is to break. My ex was a huge pain about my smoking, but he did say one really valuable thing, about breaking any addiction: "If not now... WHEN?" When asking myself that, for a while, the answer was 'well, not today.' Until I finally got sick of the 2-yr-old in my brain yammering at me constantly, and just said "enough."
Andria