House of Hybrids featuring the Zenesis PV

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gadabout

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He is on antibiotics right now, but he has been having difficulties on and off for the last few days. It has been almost 24 hours with no problems, so we are praying that he will be OK now. I would love it if some of my friends here would also say a few prayers on my and Jake's (my kitty) behalf.


*prayers sent*
 

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i think you need to use some herbal type stuff to sooth his lining too but I will send good vibes his way
He is on antibiotics right now, but he has been having difficulties on and off for the last few days. It has been almost 24 hours with no problems, so we are praying that he will be OK now. I would love it if some of my friends here would also say a few prayers on my and Jake's (my kitty) behalf.
 

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What kind of herbal stuff Tiff? I would be interested to find out more about that. I can't really afford a vet at all at the moment. I have also switched him to the special medical diet to help prevent this from ever happening again. Do you know where I could find out more about this other than a Naturopathic Vet?

i think you need to use some herbal type stuff to sooth his lining too but I will send good vibes his way
 

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What's your handicap K-man? Hope that $40 for cart rental is for 2? I think that's the worst thing. I'm way too lazy to walk.

Yes cart for two. I was a 9-10 handicap. Shoulda coulda been lower at one time but can't chip for crap! But I can putt with the best in the world :) Last couple of years been sitting at 12 to 13

Warning**** You're gonna puke for this part. I belong to a private club. About 4 grand a year. I've played a whopping....wait for it...5 times this year :( I don't know what happened. Well that's not true. I do. I just can't explain how or why I let it happen, but I'll try as briefly and in as few words as possible. This site, this thread particularly, late, late nights, too many nic comas, pure unadulterrated laziness. The mornings I could play, I preferred my bed. The afternoons, a combination of rain, work, and once again, tired and lazy. That about sums up my golf season. But I have no regrets. Next year is another year, and I've enjoyed every minute I've spent here. I count many of these people friends for life now. I've met a few, gonna meet a lot more next week, and in time, I'll meet all the ones I care to.

That said......in the words of Jed Clampett......pull up a chair and stay a while :)
 

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Next week you'll be meeting a few :)


I do believe you're all taken, so that will just prove what Zen said...they are already in strong, long lasting relationships. Please don't misinterperet my posting about all of this. I'm very independent, which might have been my downfall. An early relationship was with a man who slowly tried to take over my life...extremely jealous, ridiculously so and would throw a fit if I did anything or went any place without him. He was sure I was "screwing around".
I walked away and never looked back. I think later in life, if I saw the tiniest bit of that in anyone, I was gone. I was not going to lose myself in someone else's life.
I've never felt a desperation to be married. When I was in relationships, I liked having someone else to share with, laugh with, snuggle on a cold night, etc. BUT, I don't NEED someone. I was never one to "need" a new man if the relationship went south. I was fine by myself, thank you very much. So I realize much of my solitude is my own doing. I'm finally at an age that I'm happy with myself.
And Mike, you are SO right. No one can change anyone else....period.

OK...enough of this. There are ears to be tested!! Hearing aids to be ordered!! Notes to write!! Phone calls to return!!
 

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I don't know if I'll have internet connection this weeked but really hoping. See you all later on if I do.
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I am now on Season 2 Episode 6. Either someone owes me for sucking me into watching this, or I owe y'all for overcoming my initial misgivings..........LOL

I'd do naughty naughty naughty dirty things.... just sayin. Some friends sucked me into watching. I never thought I'd like it.... at all. I'm almost done with Season 4 and will be getting current and continuing to watch.

Seeing all this talk about men that cower in the face of their wives makes me sad. Somewhere along the line, I think Men have lost their edge... The instinct to be a provider has been replaced by a desperate need for approval.

BEING an actual provider should be satisfaction enough, but for many men this has been supplanted by the need for acknowledgement that they have provided. This is the path to wimpdom.

These men crave the "atta boy" and approval of not just women... they want EVERYBODY to tell them they are doing a good job. They live by the social currency of aknowledgement and validation.

But a real man... he's got a completely different agenda. His primal instincts drive his decisions... they are driven by the satisfaction that comes from being able to take care of business. These men don't NEED the "atta boy"and they are not motivated by it... The "good" men that women can't seem to find, understand that KNOWING you've done a good job is enough. Nobody has to say it... nobody has to applaud their efforts. They don't have to walk around saying "LOOK AT ME... I'M A GOOD CATCH"...

These guys don't ask for permission nor do they beg for forgiveness. They are confident and cocksure... That's not to say they wouldn't seek advise or consult... They wouldn't say "honey can they buy this... I hope it's OK"... they say, "I'd like to buy this so I'm going to, which do you think looks better, the black or the red?"

Bottom line... it's all about being who you are and following your instincts... Nobody is going to read this and change as a result of seeing it... too many factors are at play and you're either wired this way or your not. Ladies, you can't change a man to become this either, nor should you try. People are who they are... and if ya want a take charge-man then you have to start by finding one... they can't be created by a relationship dynamic. The fact of the matter is that they are hard to find because they, with rare exceptions, are ALL in healthy relationships that will remain healthy because they are such good providers.

This deserves a standing o.....vation... yeah ovation. LOL

The trick has always been to find the alpha-male while avoiding the complete a-holes. I made that mistake a few times before I finally found my current situation. We're both extremely independent and resentful of any perceived obligations other than faithfulness and respect. I will not go to someone's events or cook or buy gifts because I'm SUPPOSED to. I'd give this man anything in my power because he doesn't ask for it or expect it. I'm more appreciative of the things he does for me because I don't walk around feeling like he owes me anything. Of course my family thinks it's odd that we're not moving in and planning the wedding, but who the hell are they to say what makes me happy? I have my life, I have my freedom, and though I may talk to him about things, I'm not put in a position to have to justify anything. I can go out with the girls or anywhere else I want to go without him flipping out, and he can do the same. Because he doesn't make me feel like I have to let him lead, or that I need him to lead because I'm some sort of inferior being, I'm comfortable, happy, and appreciative of him taking the reins most of the time.
 
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