I call it personal self control. I also don't vape where smokers congregate. I don't particularly care for the attention and i'm not very evangelical about converting others from analogs. I do know some younger smokers who use PVs to smoke everywhere they can't light up a cigarette and then go smoke analogs wherever they can. I find this practice self indulgent and an insult to those who want to quit cigarettes using this method. I also have little tolerance for those who never smoked a cigarette in their lives and take up vaping. But then I'm in my late 60s and I come from a different era where instant gratification and total self indulgence was not the norm. I guess you can consider me the intolerant, grumpy old f_rt of the group.
You might be the intolerant, grumpy olf f_rt of the group, however me at only about 15 years younger just has to agree with many of your points. I also do not like to hang with the smokers, however will if push comes to shove. I will tell people about it if asked, however if not asked I will keep my opinions to myself, and as far as people who have never smoked before, why they hell do they want to take up vaping? I just dont get that at all, and to me is just plain dumb, I mean why would you?
Love Arizona, although 11 years since I last had the chance to visit there. I only usually get to Texas these days.....