Think of where pipe smokers put the stem of the pipe!
As far as how it looks I've never given it any thought so remind yourself it looks like you not getting cancer
I have been using the straw technique. However, remembering cigs to one side of my mouth, I just switched to the corner of my mouth at 35 deg, and I think I like it better. As for the button, I use either my thumb or the second joint of my index finger on my vamo.Nope, not silly at all.I've watched people on utube and practiced in front of a mirror!
I've got this problem with wrinkles with pursing my lips going straight in like sipping on a straw, and find the side 35 degree horizontal tilt without pursing looks best on this un-hip old woman.
Think of where pipe smokers put the stem of the pipe!