I'm no master coil builder, so I won't even offer advice on a build or how to wick it. But, if you started out
vaping to quit smoking, then remember that was the end goal. I've certainly gone through the stuff you're describing. In fact very recently.... so I will share it just as an example.
For months I was frustrated by dry hits and scorching juice with my Lemo. I was thoroughly convinced that it was my wicking jobs. then for a while I thought it was that my mod wasn't regulating power correctly.....and was biting the dust. Then, I discovered by putting my Lemo on another mod that it wasn't getting an accurate resistance reading. Turns out that I had a loose 510 pin on the Lemo. You would've thought I would have discovered that a long time ago.......but I wasn't ever getting serious resistance changes on the istick. Once I fixed that ....bam! No more dry hits, lots of vapour production, and resolved a lot of issues that I would've thought were totally unrelated.
I doubt any of that solves your build questions. But, hang in there...and the problem will shake loose. In the meantime, if you started
vaping to quit smoking and you are still able to stay off cigs, then you are in the winning category. Relax and enjoy the vape.
I do understand though.....when you're in the middle of these issues it's pretty frustrating. It really does help to buy a good clearomizer that doesn't require good building to get a good vape. I recently bought a $10 Eleaf GS Air for this reason. It's an excellent vape, with no hassle and no building. I can consistently pop that tank on anything and vape away when my rebuildable stuff is giving me a fit. I highly recommend even though you didn't ask.