I guess the other option would be to get a non smoking husband... Kidding!!! lol. I would try the EGO before that...ha ha.
I guess as he's grown older and more set in his ways and his refusal to even consider quitting...I've grown older and more set in my ways of being honest about how badly I hate it!
Still, he won't even talk about quitting. He just gets mad when I bring it up.
LOL That would do it for me. Up here in NH, it gets cold as hell during the snowy months. I'd quit if I had to smoke outside in the dead of winter.Here's one for you, if the weather cooperates. During the first nor'easter that blows through this winter, hand it to him and tell him he won't have to step outside in the cold and wet to smoke.![]()
LOL That would do it for me. Up here in NH, it gets cold as hell during the snowy months. I'd quit if I had to smoke outside in the dead of winter.
Man, I wish our house was that new. Our place is over 200 years old. Talk about cold chills. lolYep, we lived in Hampton Roads, Va for 4 years. Even though those 4 were some of the mildest they had seen in a while, that cold driving rain was enough to make me cut back. We lived in one of those 40s two story red brick affairs and the porch only had to be screened in on two sides since the other two adjoined outside walls. It didn't matter that the storm front was blowing toward the back of the house, I was still really damp and chilled after 3 minutes of hot boxing a cigarette.
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Yes, when you talk about your husbands smoking addiction and his pig-headed (my words) refusal to quit, or even try to quit, we all know exactly how he feels.
Quitting smoking is the worst thing in the world. The absolute worst. I have been able to quit for up to 6 months at a time and the main reason I always started again was because I just wasn't happy. I would end up asking myself if I'd rather be happy and live 10 fewer years, or be miserable and live 10 years longer.
I've smoked pregnant, I've smoked around my baby, I've smoked on the way to a biopsy.... I'm not at all surprised that he'd smoke despite a lung cancer scare. That's addiction.
The good news is, that that's what the great majority of us have been through. We know exactly what he's going through.
You mustn't, mustn't ever say the words "quit smoking" around him.
To a smoker, those conversations sound like this, "I want to talk to you about ...... smoking. I really think it's time you .... smoking. You should.... smoking. If you don't .... smoking! .... smoking!" By the end of it, we just want a cigarette really bad and feel ashamed (which makes us want to smoke) and feel stressed out (which makes us want to smoke).. it's a vicious cycle.
I wish he knew that we are all legit: the best thing about e-cigarettes is that there's no quitting involved. It's still smoking (more or less), it's even still addiction, it's just not killing us or the people around us....and costs less too.
I hope he tries it out. Even the model that you already have is enough to give him an idea of what it's all about and get him started.
These things are life savers! Good luck to you and to him.
ps: if he refuses try it out, just see if he will at least agree to browse this forum for a while and see what we have to say about it. Maybe coming from real smokers it'll make the difference.
LOL That would do it for me. Up here in NH, it gets cold as hell during the snowy months. I'd quit if I had to smoke outside in the dead of winter.
Yea, I used to have to smoke outside at my various relatives houses (except my Aunts, she didn't mind) but once I started vaping no one has minded that I do it inside where it's warm. lolYou know, I've thought that. Then I found myself smoking outside in the dead of winter, lol. With 20 inches of snow to boot. With the kids up I still vape mostly outside. If they are playing in a room while I'm doing something in the kitchen I might take a puff or two but it's rare that I have a second without one or the other under foot. With vaping, and with it getting cold outside I am especially happy to be able to stay INSIDE after they go to bed.
Thanks everybody for your words of encouragement. Maeve, are you just concerned that the kids don't see you smoke? My understanding is that it's safe to vape around others---Is that right? I'm still concerned about my two kids, but they are certainly seeing him chain-smoking right now. If he brings vaping inside, I'm sure that will be non-stop too. Do you think it will look too attractive to the kids? To be honest, I'm afraid it's going to be attractive to me too!
They do make non nicotine liquids (0mg) for "pleasure" vaping. Just throwing that out there.I understand. I can see why it would appear appealing to kids. Quite frankly, I dreamed about vaping myself last night! And I did test one while I was talking to the guy at the kiosk, and I liked it. Hard for me to admit, feeling like I do about my husband's smoking!