I had some computer problems so couldn't add this to my last post in time:
When the first of the month rolls around one fine day, and he's a little "short", Mom's purse might just start lookin' pretty good.
And I think you're spot-on in your analysis of his "selective" peer pressure resistance!
I hear you about the "Ten Feet Tall and Bulletproof" attitude that is so prevalent at that age, but you have at least two things on your side:
1) He knows he's harming himself, and
2) vaping - with the proper gear and juice - is more enjoyable than smoking. There inlies its greatest power.
Good luck!
You haven't offended or crossed a boundary, when it comes to him quitting I take any and all advice! He has his own apartment and I no longer have the "power of the purse" over him. When I did that kid got nothing for smokes from me even before I was vaping, and plenty of lectures. Unfortunately I have to take the blame there, me and my ex husband both smoke but never indoors or in the cars, but the they learn by example, and I was not a good example when it came to not smoking. I wish he would adopt my philosophy of letting others words not affect him, but he is a much more sensative kid in that respect. He doesn't drink and always says no if pressured, same with the drugs. And he may just be telling me its peer pressure when it comes to the ecig to keep from hearing the lectures LOL. I'll try the eCab with him and go from there I guess.
When the first of the month rolls around one fine day, and he's a little "short", Mom's purse might just start lookin' pretty good.
Unfortunately kids at this age still think they are indestructable and it will never happen to them. Talk about health benfits of quitting and he shuts down completely even though I am proof of some of those benefits. Once I get to go to my ex's house I'm hoping to convert him! Me and the ex are very good friends, we just weren't good married LOL
I hear you about the "Ten Feet Tall and Bulletproof" attitude that is so prevalent at that age, but you have at least two things on your side:
1) He knows he's harming himself, and
2) vaping - with the proper gear and juice - is more enjoyable than smoking. There inlies its greatest power.
Good luck!