Just found out that we're going to my Aunt's for Thanksgiving rather than to Grandma's, first extended family Thanksgiving we've had in years. We always had them at Grandma's every year growing up, as many as 35 people at Grandma's each Thanksgiving! We also always put up and decorated the Christmas tree in the evening of Thanksgiving day. After the men finished watching the Turkey day football game.
It kind of sucks though, I'm the wallflower, the shy one who always feels left out and ignored. It's worse around my family because I'm not an outgoing person and never have been, only I think they just see me as standoffish or proud. Some of my cousins won't say anything more to me than hello if I say hi, then proceed to act like I'm not even there. *Sigh* The joy of family. Hopefully someone that actually likes me will be there (though I doubt it, because the only ones who like me are also the others who were shunned by the majority of the family for being "different", and they generally avoid these family gatherings).
I was so mad the year we had my grandparent's 50th wedding anniversary/vow renewal, because no one really talked to hubby other than my grandparents (who are the kind of people who love you and treat you well just because you're part of their family, and seem to genuinely care all of the time). It's one thing to treat me that way, but another to treat my new husband that you're meeting for the first time that way. My family is a damn clique!
Ok, rant over, back to regularly scheduled programming!
It kind of sucks though, I'm the wallflower, the shy one who always feels left out and ignored. It's worse around my family because I'm not an outgoing person and never have been, only I think they just see me as standoffish or proud. Some of my cousins won't say anything more to me than hello if I say hi, then proceed to act like I'm not even there. *Sigh* The joy of family. Hopefully someone that actually likes me will be there (though I doubt it, because the only ones who like me are also the others who were shunned by the majority of the family for being "different", and they generally avoid these family gatherings).
I was so mad the year we had my grandparent's 50th wedding anniversary/vow renewal, because no one really talked to hubby other than my grandparents (who are the kind of people who love you and treat you well just because you're part of their family, and seem to genuinely care all of the time). It's one thing to treat me that way, but another to treat my new husband that you're meeting for the first time that way. My family is a damn clique!
Ok, rant over, back to regularly scheduled programming!