Haha, well yall are probably getting tired of my indecisiveness so I don't want to say 100%..
But right now I'm THINKING it MIGHT be the Cloupor T6 for the mod.
Less than $100 100watts. More power than I'll probably ever need but there's room to grow and I think it's even upgradeable. You can change the battery easy unlike the istick or MVP (magnetic backcover too) and USB charging built in unlike the Sigelei. I decided for a T6 over a T8 because it's a little smaller using one larger 26650 battery instead of two smaller 18650 batteries.
For the tank I decided on the Eleaf Lemo. I decided instead of buying new coils all the time for a Nautilus I'd like to replace my own wicks so I chose a Kayfun "style" tank. I read they can even produce even more vapor (when set-up correctly) . I decided against the Ehpro Kayfun Lite v2 clone because the clear tank it comes with isn't glass, I like to see how much juice I have left easily, and it's hard to find quartz conversion kits for the V2, most of them are for the 3.1. I also read the Lemo has better airflow right out of the box while the Kayfun clone may require a little modification even with the airflow control completely open.
For juices I may still try the Five Pawn Mixology sampler pack if I have a bit of extra money leftover, but it is a little pricey, I may give ITC vape's juice a try first and see how it compares to mount baker.
Before I came to this forum I was completely lost and didn't understand the terminology on anything. This forum has taught me more than I could have imagined in such a short time.