Loveline: Am I too open and honest.. with women? WWYD?

[THE]

AOL didn't exist in the eighties, obviously. But, you're a hangover from the 50s so far as I'm concerned. You're view of women is neanderthal, at best.
Gimme, gimme, gimme. How about some respect? I'm outta this thread. Believe it or not, it's not all about YOU and your selfish needs.

You'll may find (I doubt it though) when you mature, that you get out of a relationship what you put into it.

I give women more than they give me.. But I guess all that matters is money, right?
Neanderthals don't love women.. I absolutely LOVE them.. I'd kill myself before I'd do something bad to a woman I care for. It's not all about me and my selfish needs, you're really saying that?!! I have said it 100 times... I put the needs of my lady friends before my own. That is why I am worth whatever it takes to see me. I make women happy in every way - I won't spend on a woman even when I have it - because I will NOT be the common mark .. but I make women very very happy. I make them comfortable, I make them feel like a woman, I make them smile and I make them !!!! They know that they can TRUST me!

I don't know who you are to tell me I need to mature.. If you think you always get out what you put in, you're crazy. If that's true, you can cut me a check for the 100k+- I'm owed. You can feel all of the pain I felt when I lost the women I loved.... when my ex told me I could never see the kids again. When I was more loyal to her than a man has ever been to a woman.

Mature. Sure. I need some more hard knocks, that's what it is. I haven't had enough.

 

[THE]

You know what? If a woman was silly enough to come on here and admit she was a gold-digger, I'd tell her EXACTLY the same thing I just told you.

Oh whine whine whine. Your childhood was hard. So was mine. And guess what. I don't use people. And I don't use my childhood as an excuse for my failings.

I'm saying between that and not having a long life expectancy I can't just live the normal rainbow and butterfly life. They think I'm some kind of chauvinist or monster and I'm not!!

And who's talking about being a gold digger? If I wanted to be a kept man or bankrupt some dumb idiot, I'd have done it by now... Heck I even am willing to fly COACH when someone travels me!!!!

 

[Automaton]

I'm saying between that and not having a long life expectancy I can't just live the normal rainbow and butterfly life. They think I'm some kind of chauvinist or monster and I'm not!!

And who's talking about being a gold digger? If I wanted to be a kept man or bankrupt some dumb idiot, I'd have done it by now... Heck I even am willing to fly COACH when someone travels me!!!!

Oh my gosh, COACH! The HORROR! You self-sacrificing saint. /sarcasm

The more you whine and make excuses to be a bad person, the more you prove me right.

Stop making excuses for yourself and grow up.

 

[THE]

THE... I'll be perfectly honest with you.

Any woman who isn't smart enough or self-loving enough to see that you're being manipulating and shallow, and that her ability to wine and dine you is higher on your list than her brain, deserves whatever she gets.

It's not like it's difficult. Even online, you make it obvious. No woman of quality or self-esteem would so much as blink at you.

Who cares what you do? The women who involve themselves with it have decided they don't deserve better, and you don't seem to understand where you're going wrong, so you'll never change. They know it.

So do what you will. There's no helping some people.

No woman of quality or self esteem would blink at me? You must be kidding me. I've seen some of the most accomplished and confident women in the states. How can you talk to me that way?

Maybe it's just that I think above the common class... How do you feel if I say something like that to you?

 

[NCC]

Is THE really Michael Jackson? LOL




Oh, I'm sorry, I shouldn't disrespect Michael.

 

[cozzicon]

You don't even like me when I try to agree with you, why would you like me any other time?
If you don't like me.. Why am I interesting to you? Why did you open a thread I posted?

Honestly, I don't know you well enough not to like you. This isn't real life here on the boards. Maybe your a great guy who has the game to backup all the talk.

But you do provide comic relief. Indeed you do.

 

[THE]

Oh my gosh, COACH! The HORROR! You self-sacrificing saint. /sarcasm

The more you whine and make excuses to be a bad person, the more you prove me right.

Stop making excuses for yourself and grow up.

A bad person. Do you have any idea of how many lives I've changed, and for the better? Do you realize that I've saved small businesses and middle class families? Do you understand that thanks to me several of my lady friends avoided losing a fortune in property? Do you understand that I've caused THREE child molesters to be arrested, and that one is now in prison?? Do you have any idea how much food and medicine I've bought for people? Have you seen me put drunk people I don't even know into cabs to keep them from driving? The list goes on.. and ON!!!

Oh and then I am whining. I never talk about any of this, thought this would be a good place to get some things off of my chest. I was wrong. It just goes to show me that never opening up is the correct policy for me here in the states.

You think you're so mature and so much better than me... A common class person is all you are. Your plastic programmed views and societal burning in are showing and I'm sure it'll be well accepted by some.

 

[Automaton]

No woman of quality or self esteem would blink at me? You must be kidding me. I've seen some of the most accomplished and confident women in the states. How can you talk to me that way?

Maybe it's just that I think above the common class... How do you feel if I say something like that to you?

Above the common class? Well, I suppose that, unlike you, I feel no need to flaunt my life or myself everywhere I go in a desperate bid to get people to be impressed.

If you said something like that to me... Well, I don't take your opinion of me seriously for the reasons stated above. So what would I think? Nothing.

 

[THE]

Honestly, I don't know you well enough not to like you. This isn't real life here on the boards. Maybe your a great guy who has the game to backup all the talk.

But you do provide comic relief. Indeed you do.

Name something I've said that isn't true and I'll eat my hat. . Wait, I don't have my hat on.... So name something I've said that isn't true and I'll eat my atomizer..

Really, I am not here to prove anything, to lie to you people, etc.
I got some things off of my chest and found out how one lady I thought was a nice person really thinks of me.

Productive enough, the thread has been, I'd say.

 

[Zelphie]

You know what's funny.. some lady gets on here telling me am I twelve.. Women play men for money all of the damned time and no one says anything. Then I'm in a bad spot and going to see one of my lady friends, who I am 100% honest with, and I'm going to improve their lives, and make them very happy ... just to get away for awhile and/or explore some opportunity.. and some lady is telling me I'm childish

Try having the responsibility I've had to shoulder since I was a young boy.. That you should never have had to have.. and see if you don't get into a bad spot now and then.. see if you might not want to get away for awhile, sometimes.

I don't take a tenth of what I could.. I don't take advantage of anyone
I stay away from the weak minded women I could really take for a $mint$
And it's funny how it's all okay and fine for a woman to be travelled by a man but the moment a male isn't just another sucker spending all of his money on women, he's a childish person or a gigolo

What a world we live in!!

Stop before you retreat back into the womb.

 

[THE]

Above the common class? Well, I suppose that, unlike you, I feel no need to flaunt my life or myself everywhere I go in a desperate bid to get people to be impressed.

If you said something like that to me... Well, I don't take your opinion of me seriously for the reasons stated above. So what would I think? Nothing.

Sure, that is what I am desperate to do!! Impress people on an internet forum!!! You caught me. Sigh. Are you even being serious?? And what on earth am I trying to FLAUNT??? Being in a bad financial spot and living out in the middle of nowhere in hopelessville USA? I'm sure laying it on thick over here, ain't I?

You're right that I said that to you... you think that a real woman "wouldn't blink at me" and you believe me to be a "bad person". You must be outright delusional to think that way. I am a wonderful man who has never bailed on anyone or cheated on anyone in my life. I've been a godsend to a-lot of people and not received a whole lot back for it. And you have the gall to call me a bad person.

It's just ridiculous, I believe.

 

[THE]

Stop before you retreat back into the womb.

You caught me again! That is just what I will do... retreat back into a womb.
She'd probably charge me to rent the space in her stomach.
You have no idea what I've spent on my parents.
No idea!

 

[NCC]

Dude, your entire concept of women kind of negates any good you've done when you express your low esteem for women. You say you hold women in high regard, but everything you express says the opposite. One gets the impression from your uncontested opening remarks that women are something other, lesser, than human ... certainly something to USE. You, yourself, in other threads have explained your preferences for male dominance. And, I'll grant you that some women are into that also. I have no problem with that, if that's their bag. However, your post #1 most likely should've been prefaced with some kind of acknowledgment that you're into that kind of crap and "your women" are submissive by choice. As a preface, maybe you would've avoided some flak. Maybe.

As for myself, I like women who I view as equals.

 

[cozzicon]

Stop before you retreat back into the womb.

Zelphie, have mercy... it's the only way he can... um... you know.

 

[Automaton]

Well, let me be clearer.

I think you're too emotional to be a "real" bad person. "Real" bad people are sociopaths. You sure ain't that.

But you don't always make good decisions. And you don't always think of people as people. You manipulate and excuse it as your right. And rather than self-reflecting on that, you seem to become defensive when anyone suggests you're wrong.

You asked, buddy. You put it out for the world to see. You go your unanimous reply.

I happen to know some of the people here. And I also know myself. I can tell you for 100% certain that many of us are not "cookie cutter" people. We just don't flaunt it. Trust me, there are some people here who are anything but "common."

I consider some of the people here to be very advanced human beings indeed - and they have flaws too. But the reason I think so highly of them, is because they know it, and they actively work on it.

You won't admit it to yourself. You act like it would rip apart your entire worldview to admit you could be wrong.

And that, and that alone, is why I have a different opinion of you.

 

[Zelphie]

I'm saying between that and not having a long life expectancy I can't just live the normal rainbow and butterfly life. They think I'm some kind of chauvinist or monster and I'm not!!

And who's talking about being a gold digger? If I wanted to be a kept man or bankrupt some dumb idiot, I'd have done it by now... Heck I even am willing to fly COACH when someone travels me!!!!

I cannot live a decent life either. All the rainbows faded in the nut wards of yester year. That said, I dont really care you just amuse me right now. Oh and you 12! hehehe

 

[Zelphie]

Zelphie, have mercy... it's the only way he can... um... you know.

common its late and Im so bored! Ive been stuck inside all day. lemme play

 

[cozzicon]

common its late and Im so bored! Ive been stuck inside all day. lemme play

Oh ok... just make sure you hang up the single tail when finished and don't get any blood on the walls.

 

[THE]

Dude, your entire concept of women kind of negates any good you've done when you express your low esteem for women. You say you hold women in high regard, but everything you express says the opposite. One gets the impression from your uncontested opening remarks that women are something other, lesser, than human ... certainly something to USE. You, yourself, in other threads have explained your preferences for male dominance. And, I'll grant you that some women are into that also. I have no problem with that, if that's their bag. However, your post #1 most likely should've been prefaced with some kind of acknowledgment that you're into that kind of crap and "your women" are submissive by choice. As a preface, maybe you would've avoided some flak. Maybe.

I'm afraid to talk about submissive women on here because of all of the people who jumped all over me about it. I've never been so angry and mad, in my life!! I do not understand why you always tell me I have "low esteem toward women" or I believe that "women are below men". I try to tell you that I believe that women are more intelligent than men are.. and sometimes even more capable.

You can't say that I use women just because I am not a sucker. You want to talk about being used.. When I lost the woman I loved years ago, and started drinking, all of the women I would see always left five minutes after I serviced them..... That's being used.. how about when my father only came into town when he needed money.. What about a couple of women I saved/made 100s of 1000s when they did as I advised them and then completely forgot I was alive...

I don't USE anyone. Just because I won't bleed money to women or say yes dear or stand in the kitchen washing dishes doesn't mean I am a bad person.

I absolutely do not believe that "men are better than women" and I absolutely do not "use women".
If you ask me, woman #B is the one trying to use someone, if ANYONE is.
And yes, I'd be using her, as well... but who's really pulling the "using someone" strings in that situation?! HER!

 

[Zelphie]

Oh my gosh, COACH! The HORROR! You self-sacrificing saint. /sarcasm

The more you whine and make excuses to be a bad person, the more you prove me right.

Stop making excuses for yourself and grow up.

LOL I know. LOL your willing to fly coach when someones pays your way. Your officially pre ejacul*****