Excusing myself from this farce, again. Man, as if life doesn't leave scars on anyone but you. Good luck.
Loveline: Am I too open and honest.. with women? WWYD?
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Yes, I feel for people... unless I am doing business with someone, or someone compromises a loved one, I'd never hurt anyone.
You say that I manipulate people because I think it's a right I've got? I don't think of them as human beings? And then I don't admit it to myself? And I'm defensive if someone calls me on it because I am afraid of being wrong?
You really believe all of that? I tell you one thing.. I don't like being human or dealing with most other ones. Human beings are the most ... backward mess of a species ever thought of.
We all have flaws. And if you show me I've got one, I am more than willing to accept it. My lady friends all know that if they don't agree with something I'm doing they're 100% free to say something to me about it... and there have been many many times where it's helped me see things and I've had to stand back and say .. you know what, you're right ..
And when I'm having them to do something for themselves.. I will ask, you do know that this is best for you, don't you? Very nicely I'll ask .. and they almost always will say, well, yes.. and they're thankful for me!
Your views and opinions of me just don't make sense. Everything you're saying is baseless. You said that I don't always make good decisions and that is absolutely .. TRUE.
I've even refused to see women before who I knew were starting to fall for me, knowing that if I let them form an attachment, they'd be hurt. Women I enjoyed the hell out of.
You tell me when I have EVER "manipulate and excuse it as your right"
How is point blank honesty used to manipulate someone
I'd love to know
Oh boy
I know many many people who've had it a-lot tougher than I have
I just was trying to explain to you that not everyone can live the way you think they should. My life hasn't and won't be like society thinks a life should be. Too bad for them. I have to live it
I know you're making fun of me, and you think I'm ridiculous ... and I think you're a ..... ..
But I like you for some reason.
Take your best shot lady I'm kind of enjoying you.. seriously
(Not being sarcastic.. I really am)
HUH? Its not a literal statement, ok Ill stop playing now, you seem to genuinely be upset and I was just using you for money..I mean amusement. No actual hard feelings. Ok back to the first post. Go with woman A.
I might as well be made of whatever you're talking about, because I produce a gallon of it
Oh and to make you hate me even more... I got a free upgrade on 3 different flights because the adorable ladies at the counters love me ..... And I got to board FIRST on one flight, even before FC/BC because I am so adorable and lovable
How do you like "pre ejacul*****" coated APPLES??
Nah I'm alright .. I don't mean to sound all butthurt
I don't mind you having a little fun
Actually I do seem to kind of like your personality a little
THE,
The only way I could be that drastically wrong is one of a few ways.
1. You are a totally different person with a different life and personality than you are online. I don't know of any woman, those who are in a D/s lifestyle included, who likes to be talked about the way you talk about woman. None.
2. You have a particular "game" you play which involves treating women as objects that you have not informed us of - if this is the case, then you have failed to inform us of the full situation. But I doubt this is the case, since you STILL talk about women like this even randomly.
3. I have a faulty connection to reality. I doubt this, since everyone else here, some of whom I know and trust, agrees that they are seeing the same thing I am.
That's it.
So I would expect that #3 is true... of you. You are not allowing yourself to see what you are.
You brag and flaunt how amazing you think you are everywhere. I'm beginning to think you need to convince yourself of that just to keep going.
Gazing into the abyss is scary, huh?
Put on your big boy pants.
The only way I could be that drastically wrong is one of a few ways.
1. You are a totally different person with a different life and personality than you are online. I don't know of any woman, those who are in a D/s lifestyle included, who likes to be talked about the way you talk about woman. None.
2. You have a particular "game" you play which involves treating women as objects that you have not informed us of - if this is the case, then you have failed to inform us of the full situation. But I doubt this is the case, since you STILL talk about women like this even randomly.
3. I have a faulty connection to reality. I doubt this, since everyone else here, some of whom I know and trust, agrees that they are seeing the same thing I am.
That's it.
So I would expect that #3 is true... of you. You are not allowing yourself to see what you are.
You brag and flaunt how amazing you think you are everywhere. I'm beginning to think you need to convince yourself of that just to keep going.
Gazing into the abyss is scary, huh?
Put on your big boy pants.
THE: Here's a picture of a woman.
If she wanted your company, are you seriously going to consider whether or not she can PAY YOUR AIRFARE?
Good gawd man, you're a poor excuse for a human being, IMHumbleO.
If she wanted your company, are you seriously going to consider whether or not she can PAY YOUR AIRFARE?
Good gawd man, you're a poor excuse for a human being, IMHumbleO.
Oh my lord that reminds me
Get drunk at DFW airport sometime
That was like a vacation in and of itself, right there. I love it there!!
I missed my sna because the captain said I was too drunk to fly... he was so nice. I can't believe I actually got to stand there talking the captain for ten twenty minutes talking about the old days and everything. They didn't even charge me extra for NFO!!!
Oh and then some gay guy offered me a job in some state like nebraska .. come work for me.... yeah not thanks pal!! LoL
Get drunk at DFW airport sometime
That was like a vacation in and of itself, right there. I love it there!!
I missed my sna because the captain said I was too drunk to fly... he was so nice. I can't believe I actually got to stand there talking the captain for ten twenty minutes talking about the old days and everything. They didn't even charge me extra for NFO!!!
Oh and then some gay guy offered me a job in some state like nebraska .. come work for me.... yeah not thanks pal!! LoL
THE: Here's a picture of a woman.
If she wanted your company, are you seriously going to consider whether or not she can PAY YOUR AIRFARE?
Good gawd man, you're a poor excuse for a human being, IMHumbleO.
Oh how perfectly chivalrous of you.. Do I hear wedding bells?
Am I in the twlight zone...am I having a weird dream? I think we've all gone bloody mad!
It's 4:38 AM here. I'm sorry, did I say something wrong? I'm going to hit the sheets.
It's 4:38 AM here. I'm sorry, did I say something wrong? I'm going to hit the sheets.
What. No hug?
I don't know or care what everyone does when it comes to d/s or bdsm.. the relationships I have with women have been called DD (domestic discipline).. but I don't read books, or study how it's supposed to work.... I just know that many many amazing talented and awesome women have need of what I am.. Not what I've learned to do, but who I am. It didn't come from books or stories and if I don't conform to what "they" do, too bad.
One guy even told me one time that what I do is "too weird" .. THAT, coming from a guy who was cutting and outright beating on women .. for videos he was making.
1. What on earth is so bad about the way I talk about women? I say they're more intelligent than men. I speak of how talented and accomplished they are. I talk about how much I love women. I even admit that most men are ridiculous ....... I talk about how loyal I am to them. I talk about fulfilling them and making them happy.
And I have a couple people still saying I talk badly of women?? Give me a clear answer as to why.. Name something I've said about women that is so offensive.
2. No. I don't treat women as objects. If I wanted to, I'd be running them on the streets. I'm not black enough to be a pimp or white enough to be an escort manager. And I absolutely just do not have it in my stomach to send women out to make money for me, that is horrible. I've had women want me to be a "master" or "lord" over them or whatever it is with the tpe this and bdsm that .. and I've declined.. I do not ever want to belittle or take advantage of a female!!
3. You're a very intelligent realistic person. I can't imagine why you feel like you do about me. Maybe go back to number one. Maybe I don't come across in simple text as I am in life.
I don't need to convince myself of anything.. I know that what I do for other people is amazing.... but I WILL admit that I am also amazed at what little I've done for myself in the past few years.. and it IS absolutely terrifying staring into the gaping hole I've created for myself.
I use to just "figure
out" and make sure I had a house to live in and a Cadillac under my ... and good food to eat and doctors to see and everything else.. Something has been tragically different since I lost that woman I loved back whenI can do anything for anyone but me.. I don't LOVE money any more. I don't know how to. And it seems that when I don't LOVE it I don't HAVE it.
So you got me to admit to something.
That is easy for me, when you're right.. yes .. it's beyond scary for me right now. I lost my spark and don't know if it'll ever come back. But I'll NEVER give up on it
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