Member verbal harrassment

[taukimada]

Kaston.. personally i think it would be best to just take thisin stride..

i'm not saying ignore it.. far from.. just you shouldnt let it bother you and just go on as you are..

i'm surprised there aren't even more messages being sent like that to ALL the miss ecf contestents... it's just the nature of some people to decide they are offended by things that aren't of thier concern in the first place

glad you reported it... dont EXPECT a ban.. and just continue to have fun

 

[Kaston]

You said you reported this to SJ already?

And this was unprovoked? (I mean, like you didn't call her that first or something?)

If that's the case, I must admit....I am a bit shocked myself

Lu

I have never talked to this person ever before. It was completely unprovoked!

 

[Kaston]

Kaston.. personally i think it would be best to just take thisin stride..

i'm not saying ignore it.. far from.. just you shouldnt let it bother you and just go on as you are..

i'm surprised there aren't even more messages being sent like that to ALL the miss ecf contestents... it's just the nature of some people to decide they are offended by things that aren't of thier concern in the first place

glad you reported it... dont EXPECT a ban.. and just continue to have fun

I don't even know if it was in reference to the Miss ECF. The person did not say why they though me a ".....".

 

[jcgearhart]

I think it gutsy to call this member out for the cowardly PM. Good for you Kaston. Don't take no *&^% from no one! However, your Cheeky (if I may) sig banner was fine for the pageant thread, but might be offensive to some members if seen in other threads. Just saying.

 

[Kaston]

I think it gutsy to call this member out for the cowardly PM. Good for you Kaston. Don't take no *&^% from no one! However, your Cheeky (if I may) sig banner was fine for the pageant thread, but might be offensive to some members if seen in other threads. Just saying.

I only had it up for a day as a joke. It has been down since last night. But the message was uncalled for.

 

[taukimada]

You said you reported this to SJ already?

And this was unprovoked? (I mean, like you didn't call her that first or something?)

If that's the case, I must admit....I am a bit shocked myself

Lu

hehe.. hey Lu..

evidently on this thread we are in agreement

just messin... btw.. off topic but since yer here..

you DO realize i wasn't trying to offend in that other thread correct?

 

[Trumpybloke]

I am ****in FUMING !!!!
Everyone is allowed an opinion .. opinions are like ........s, everyone has one!

HOWEVER THIS GOES BEYOND OPINIONS!!!!

It is a CALLOUS STUPID ATTACK on a member of our community , SANNEKE , if you know something we dont I ****in DARE you to share it with us??
If you dont have anything to base your shameless cowardly message on apart from some sick twisted image you have in your mind then just keep your damned thoughts to yourself.

By Posting this PM on the board I think Kaston has done a VERY brave thing even tho it contravenes forum rules, I do not believe ANY member making a personal unfounded attack should be able to hide behind forum rules like the coward you appear to be by attacking her behind the anonymity of the net.

You did not state you disagreed with her philosophy or similar you called her "nothing more than a ..... "... You sir/madam are way outta line
If ever I got the opportunity, rest assured I would take you out the back and impress on you how much of thoughtful person you are NOT !!!

( edit .. Oh and if by chance you are female, ignore the taking you out the back bit , it goes against everything I believe in , but you should know better)

 

[D_Struct]

I will be genuinely upset if this member isn't banned for a good, long while.

 

[ZambucaLu]

Hey Trump....language, please. I "fixed it" this time. Please keep an eye on it.

Lu

 

[CellWho]

The world is full of small minded people. Thank you for posting this.

Lu, if you can't pull the trigger on this person, perhaps now would be a good time to influence someone who can. This should and cannot be tolerated. Make it happen.

 

[ZambucaLu]

hehe.. hey Lu..

evidently on this thread we are in agreement

just messin... btw.. off topic but since yer here..

you DO realize i wasn't trying to offend in that other thread correct?

Yes, I certainly do realize that Tauk. I know what you were saying.

Lu

 

[tpboles]

Ah come on people...that is not that bad. I'm sorry, but it probably isn't the first time any of you have seen this word. I'm sure a few of you have probably been called that word. Do we really have to act like a bunch of babies here? I wish that was the worst thing I had ever been called! Would I want to be called that? Probably not, but it wouldn't even get a blink out of me. Boo freakin Whoo!

For god's sake it's not the end of the world. Let it go. No reason to burn someone at the satke for saying ......

Just so you know I'm not friends with this person. Have never spoke with them.

Now flame away!

 

[ZambucaLu]

The world is full of small minded people. Thank you for posting this.

Lu, if you can't pull the trigger on this person, perhaps now would be a good time to influence someone who can. This should and cannot be tolerated. Make it happen.

Unfortunately, this one is "bigger than me". If she already reported it to SJ, then I'm sure he'll deal with it, one way or another.

Lu

 

[Trumpybloke]

Hey Trump....language, please. I "fixed it" this time. Please keep an eye on it.

Lu

Apologies Lu ....heat of the moment thing ... I stand by my asterisk's tho

 

[Christopher]

Ah come on people...that is not that bad. I'm sorry, but it probably isn't the first time any of you have seen this word. I'm sure a few of you have probably been called that word. Do we really have to act like a bunch of babies here? I wish that was the worst thing I had ever been called! Would I want to be called that? Probably not, but it wouldn't even get a blink out of me. Boo freakin Whoo!

For god's sake it's not the end of the world. Let it go. No reason to burn someone at the satke for saying ......

Just so you know I'm not friends with this person. Have never spoke with them.

Now flame away!

I did not read it as a booo whoo post. I read it as someone who was shocked that they would get an unprovoked hate message from someone that does not even know them.

 

[mizmare]

sticks and stones people. Insecure people name call, laugh it off and move on. Besides, they did this in private, did they not? It's not like they dropped a bucket of pigs blood on you.

 

[The Wiz]

Unfortunately, this one is "bigger than me". If she already reported it to SJ, then I'm sure he'll deal with it, one way or another.

Lu

I certainly hope so lu...no place for those kind of antics here....There needs to immediate repercussion for these types of behavior!The Wiz!

 

[D_Struct]

It has nothing to do with the word, anyway. I'm sure everyone's been called worse.

The problem lies in that this was a blatant and unprovoked personal attack. This clearly goes against board policy, and should be dealt with accordingly.

In a site that's meant to be more "free for all", but this board has never advocated this type of mindset.

 

[Fox3]

Tacky, unwarranted, ill bred, rude, disgusting and wholly uncalled for. Were it me this thing would be flushed once and for all.

 

[kinabaloo]

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Seems already gone.

Was obviously very offended by something. Doesn't mean that 'something' would offend someone else. A hot-head moment. We shouldn't get hot-headed too.

I would be very unnerved by such a message myself though, so i do understand.