Moving Forward

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Blaze

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Blaze, I forwarded you the PM that you sent me about co-ops. I really don't want to air this in the public forum and cause more hurt but I will if it means letting the group know what really happened.

Do what you have to do, I no longer care. I'm sure it'll be a big painting of making me the bad guy anyway.

So much for trying to help......
 

PopTart

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Wow so sad to see what has happend to this group. Maybe this group needs to go to just having a PIF thread and nothing else. I don't know whats going on at this point nor do I care to try to figure it out. I am almost afraid to do any trading because to much could slip under the radar. But I am going to keep on trading and cross my fingers that there are still people out there like me who are more interested in PIF then the drama.

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tiburonfirst

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Wow so sad to see what has happend to this group. Maybe this group needs to go to just having a PIF thread and nothing else. I don't know whats going on at this point nor do I care to try to figure it out. I am almost afraid to do any trading because to much could slip under the radar. But I am going to keep on trading and cross my fingers that there are still people out there like me who are more interested in PIF then the drama.

my :2c:

i agree, poptart
i tried my best this morning to stop the opening of old wounds, because no matter what, you can't undo something that's done.
we either move forward or pif will be done with.:(
 

HzG8rGrl

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I sent pm's to some stating that as long as everyone continued to comment back and forth that this crap will not die down and go away. If you guys continue back and forth it seems reasonable that PIF will be shut down. On the other hand PIF can live if you let this matter die. Say no more, accept the changes that have been made and let Jules alone. When she is ready and everyong quits talking about this, forgets and forgives. maybe she'll visit. I wouldn't want to come in here either if I were her. She just wants to be one of us. So if you see her around, say hey and keep going. Don't dredge it up again and again as I see alot of right here.
No-one asked, but I had to say (Type) it anyhoots.
 

tiburonfirst

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So how long should I sit back and take abuse before standing up and saying something? I don't know, but this is the first I have done that. People ask for explanations and transparency then when I do say something it's misconstrued as adding to the problem.

no, allie, we care for you very much.
the problem is that everybody has their own take on what happened. you can't clarify it for us because we were not there.
the group has to pull together or it won't work.
 

WhatAClumsyGirl

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Hz..while you have a valid point.

I have to disagree. You have to let people have their say..vent their frustrations, let it all out, let people say what they feel.....

If you don't....it will only make things worse. People will feel left out, not allowed to have a say, not allowed to voice their opinion.

It will die out...it will eventually be over with...but if you shut people down, it will only make it worse.

I say...let everyone who wants to say something say it here....then when this dies out...close this thread.

I am happy with how things are right now...so i dont have anything to say other than I want everyone to enjoy this group.

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VRubin

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I agree with Clumsy. I say let everyone vent out, get it handled, and then move on. We've been saying "Get over it and move on" from day 1, and it's not working. People are still lost. So if you have something to say, (within the rules obviously, I know better NOW ha) say it. And if you don't wanna hear it, don't read. And thats MY two pennies.
 

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FWIW Clumsy, I think you're right in this instance. Because so many of the discussions have been closed before anyone felt any kind of any resolution...it might be best for everyone to have a chance to get it all out.

But I'd also encourage us all to think through what we're posting, take the time to be sure that we really want to and/or need to post it and to be at least civil in our verbiage. We should consider our motives as well. Are we posting with good intentions or merely to vent a hissy? Is what we're about to post going to do good or ill to the group as a whole? We should also be aware of what we reveal about our own characters when we post without consideration.

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