Thanks for the welcome! I still enjoy it, altho the load outs are getting harder and harder..lol...I used to spend all my rock star money (that's what my daughters called it) on cigs, now it goes to vaping.
I hear you about the load outs. I quit playing gigs years ago and retired from music for a while. About 6 years ago, we formed a praise band at church and I've been playing the 9:00 service every Sunday morning. We rehearse on Monday nights and that's the extent of my obligation. In that format, it's a lot of fun. Contemporary Christian is pop rock based and I get to do lots of fill ins and enough solos in the mix and it's satisfying.
I got another call from the old band I played with for over 10 years. They have an oldies group that plays stuff from the 60s to the 80s. They are up to 9 members with the horn players and singers and that cuts the pay quite a bit. The lead guitar player was playing with two groups and has decided to back it down to one that has 4 members to split the money.
I turned him down graciously for the second time in 3 years. I'm too old to lug speaker stacks and amps in and out three times a week and have no desire to get home at 3:00 am anymore. In my current gig, I leave the amp on stage and all I have to do is flip three switches and put my Peavey Sanpera controller unit out in front from where I store it next to the amp (trip hazard). I clip my wireless transmitter on my belt, plug it into the guitar, and I'm ready!
Music is fun when you are young and reckless and it's still fun when you get older. At that point, a part time gig is a good thing, IMO. We played a different place every Friday and Saturday night in the old days and rehearsed for 3 hours on Wednesday night. It was tiring then, but exciting. These days, I think it would just be tiring after a while ... maybe exciting for the first two sets.