My uncle should've listened to me. He now has cancer.

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IgnorantCig

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I've been vaping for a little over 2 years now, having been a life long smoker. Things are going great, and I have not had one single cigarette since the day my first vape device came in the mailbox, more than 2 years ago.

I have an uncle that lives far away from me, and the last time I visited him was about 2 years ago, around the time when I had just begun on my vape journey. My uncle is also a long time smoker, and he smokes those nasty hand rolled european tobaccos, the kind without any filter.

When I last visited him 2 years ago, I suggested to him numerous times how he should perhaps consider vaping. I kept telling him how great vaping was, and I told him how great it was working for me, and I asked him numerous times if he wanted to try mine, but he declined each time.

You can't force somebody else to do something if they don't want to, so I didn't press the issue anymore.

Fast forward to a few months ago, and I heard that my uncle had been diagnosed with throat cancer, and he is currently undergoing treatment.

To me, this just drives home the point that smoking is no joke, it is a killer, and I am so glad that I have been vaping for more than 2 years already. That is countless numbers of cancer sticks that I have not fed into my lungs over the span of those 2 years.

I still see plenty of people smoking regular cigarettes when I am out and about, and to be honest, it is kind of puzzling, since vaping is so known now, but to each his own.

At least when I am walking around with my mini-mod in my pocket, I can do so with a smile on my face, knowing that I am no longer summoning the angel of death, unlike the countless people that I still see puffing away on their cigs.
 

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Sorry to hear about your uncle. Hope he recovers and lives a full life.

Addiction is hard to understand. Im a hypocrite of sorts. I hate when people call ...... addiction a disease. To me its clearly a choice. Yet, I face a similar addiction, nicotine addiction. My choice isnt to smoke (which I still do, dual user) and im trying to change it, but no matter how hard I try (vaping) I somehow manage to still smoke.

My sister was a smoker. She doesnt understand vaping and vapers. She faced ovarian cancer, and won. She decided to quit smoking. And she did the day she was going to stop. She says lollipops helped, but somehow it was her mental ability to just stop the addiction.

I dont think we'll ever truly understand addiction. Be thankful you broke free. For others, it may never happen.
 

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cancer takes years to develope.... chances are even 3 yrs ago your uncle already "had" cancer but didnt become dangerous until now... it would be somewhat doubtful that quitting the smokes and going to vaping would have changed much... it may have prolonged the appearence of it by some short period, but still, the outcome would be the same.
 

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I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad to lung cancer. He was a heavy smoker just like I was. Maybe he would have lived longer had he vaped but the technology wasn't around yet at that time. Cancer does take years to develop and that scares me. What if an ex-smoker, now vaper, develops cancer, what are the chances that the doctors will blame vaping for the cancer?
 
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I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad to lung cancer. He was a heavy smoker just like I was. Maybe he would have lived longer had he vaped but the technology wasn't around yet at that time. Cancer does take years to develop and that scares me. What if an ex-smoker, now vaper, develops cancer, what are the chances that the doctors will blame vaping for the cancer?

There may be folks who will, but doctors do understand that it takes many years for most cancers to develop. It can 10 to 15 years for an ex smoker to find their risk of cancer has decreased considerably over a smoker. That won't stop illogical arguments from occurring, but the evidence speaks for itself.

@pahick , the problem with addiction is not all people will be at the same risk as another. How our brain is wired is individual, influenced by genetics and life events (yes, events can considerably influence the wiring in your brain). That's why some folks can have a beer and not run into problems, and others cannot. Same with cigarettes, not everyone becomes addicted to it. Same with every other addictive substance we know of. Just as that potential for addiction exists, so does the variability between people in how they break an addiction. It's easier for some than others. I needed vaping to succeed.
 
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What if an ex-smoker, now vaper, develops cancer, what are the chances that the doctors will blame vaping for the cancer?
Based on the science of it, no qualified oncologist would be confused.
From what I have gleaned over the years, Non smokers get an entirely different form of (lung) cancer than smokers. (further debunking the SHS propaganda.)

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I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad to lung cancer. He was a heavy smoker just like I was. Maybe he would have lived longer had he vaped but the technology wasn't around yet at that time. Cancer does take years to develop and that scares me. What if an ex-smoker, now vaper, develops cancer, what are the chances that the doctors will blame vaping for the cancer?



Seriously, I do think doctors know better.. and so do people.
 
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I've been vaping for a little over 2 years now, having been a life long smoker. Things are going great, and I have not had one single cigarette since the day my first vape device came in the mailbox, more than 2 years ago.

I have an uncle that lives far away from me, and the last time I visited him was about 2 years ago, around the time when I had just begun on my vape journey. My uncle is also a long time smoker, and he smokes those nasty hand rolled european tobaccos, the kind without any filter.

When I last visited him 2 years ago, I suggested to him numerous times how he should perhaps consider vaping. I kept telling him how great vaping was, and I told him how great it was working for me, and I asked him numerous times if he wanted to try mine, but he declined each time.

You can't force somebody else to do something if they don't want to, so I didn't press the issue anymore.

Fast forward to a few months ago, and I heard that my uncle had been diagnosed with throat cancer, and he is currently undergoing treatment.

To me, this just drives home the point that smoking is no joke, it is a killer, and I am so glad that I have been vaping for more than 2 years already. That is countless numbers of cancer sticks that I have not fed into my lungs over the span of those 2 years.

I still see plenty of people smoking regular cigarettes when I am out and about, and to be honest, it is kind of puzzling, since vaping is so known now, but to each his own.

At least when I am walking around with my mini-mod in my pocket, I can do so with a smile on my face, knowing that I am no longer summoning the angel of death, unlike the countless people that I still see puffing away on their cigs.

I'm sorry to hear about your uncle.. cancer is a Hell of a thing.

Glad your vaping too!
 

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I always get stuck when the act of smoking and vaping are called an addiction. Yes, some people are physically addicted to (maybe) nicotine, but its the added chemicals that are in cigarettes and what the combustion of those chemicals create that people are physically addicted to. Their bodies need these these chemicals and are in some sense self medicating. But to me its the behavior of the act of smoking and vaping and the psychological aspects of it that really define whether we can change that about ourselves and what makes it so much more difficult to quit. If you think about it, smoking and vaping permeate our daily lives along with all of the triggers that come with it. Any study that I have ever read always concentrates on the nicotine and those who don't smoke gets stuck on that and wonders why we just can't put them down. I would really like to see some clinical studies that focus on the entire aspect of smoking, not just one small part.

i am so sorry to hear of your uncles illness. Give him all of our prayers and good wishes for a speedy recovery.

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