No worries mate, my wife is a nonsmoker, never smoked in her life and the day we got married first thing she said is... your quiting smoking tomorrow. Like its that easy. Any who 2 years later I discovered ecig. I love it, and so dose my wife... but the whole point of this reply is she still kicks my out to vape. lol
No offense, but I don't think I like your wife. I'm pretty sure that if I was in that situation, I'd say "Look, if you want me to try to quit, then be reasonable. If you are going to make me go outside and treat me like I'm smoking anyway, then I might as well smoke".
Saying "Go stand in the cold, or the heat, or the rain, whatever the weather happens to be like, because I'm going to pretend you are still smoking" is just stupid. To me, it doesn't even make sense with *real* cigarettes. All these people screaming "No cigarettes inside, pass a law! No cigs in the bar, pass a law! Make them go outside, because it's healthier!" are making smokers stand in the heat, or the cold, or the rain, or whatever. And they don't give a damn if you get cold and wet and sick from it, even while they are screaming about "Health reasons!".
Of course, I'm divorced, so you probably shouldn't be taking advice from me.