ok, now i have a problem, the indicator light is flashing when i take a puff, even though i charged it overnight. There is NO vapour at all. At this rate i'll be sending it back & giving up

Help!
Well, best of luck with the Milano. As was mentioned, this model is generally considered one of the low-rent not-great ecigs, marketed to desperate smokers that fall for the number-of-analogs-in-a-cart numbers. Those numbers are meaningless, and generally very inflated. The batts tend to die quickly, and the attys are very weak. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but unfortunately it sounds like this is what you are experiencing.
I would try to get your money back and invest in a better model, after doing some research here. It will likely cost less than the Milano too, so in the long run you will be ahead of the game. Models that have a strong following here are:
510
901
801
KR808D-1
I use a 510, absolutely love it, and it is a model that is good immediately, but can be made a whole lot better with a little modifying. It is a 3-piece, like the Milano, but
far better quality, and cheaper! The kr808d-1 is a 2-piece batt/cartomizer model that also has rave reviews here, and would be more convenient that the 3-piece, as you don't worry about the atty...its in the cart.
But I advice researching here some before making a decision. The one good thing about those commonly fallen-for "Mall" brands is they teach you what you would really want in a real PV.
Good luck, and welcome! Please feel free to ask us about any model you may be interested in.