Good morning ladies.
Loved the blog Keyzy. Glad you got an appointment Donna.
Loved the blog Keyzy. Glad you got an appointment Donna.
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Keyzey, I wish you didn't HAVE to be nice!! lol Bullying is epidemic in this world, including ECF, I guess. Some of you vets, I haven't been around long enough -- don't the moderators of the forums do something about it?
I think it can also be difficult, because bullying can occur without violating the specifics of ECFs rules. Often one person will say something and others jump in,and overwhelm the single individual. Some of the bullying is outside of the forum,on FB, or youtube.....
However, the mods also can't evaluate the problem if they don't know when it's happening. They can't follow every thread. The best tool they have to know if something bad is happening on ECF is for the questionable posts to be reported (clicking the little triangle with an exclamation point, on the lower left side of a post, opens a window that allows you to send a message to tell a mod to check it out- spam, a specific problem, a questionable post, or bullying)
However, the mods also can't evaluate the problem if they don't know when it's happening. They can't follow every thread. The best tool they have to know if something bad is happening on ECF is for the questionable posts to be reported (clicking the little triangle with an exclamation point, on the lower left side of a post, opens a window that allows you to send a message to tell a mod to check it out- spam, a specific problem, a questionable post, or bullying)
Good Morning Ladies!! 
Yes they do,most things happen in the private or supplier owned forums. In 2 posts on V4L yesterday I had issues.Both threads were locked and handled.I was shaking nervous but I did confront one of them. I was scared but I didnt let it show. I held my ground. I dont need that much stress right now. I dont know why I get so nervous and scared. I hope Im not a wimp,lol.
Yes they do,most things happen in the private or supplier owned forums. In 2 posts on V4L yesterday I had issues.Both threads were locked and handled.I was shaking nervous but I did confront one of them. I was scared but I didnt let it show. I held my ground. I dont need that much stress right now. I dont know why I get so nervous and scared. I hope Im not a wimp,lol.
Morning Keyzy.
Conflict can cause adrenaline even over the interwebs....a wimp wouldn't have confronted it. A wimp would have quietly left the subforum, like i did way back (even though that's where i hung out when i first joined ECF)
Conflict can cause adrenaline even over the interwebs....a wimp wouldn't have confronted it. A wimp would have quietly left the subforum, like i did way back (even though that's where i hung out when i first joined ECF)
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I agree with CES, Keyzy -- courage is action in spite of fear, which is just what you did! 
Thanks Ladies,its funny how you keep replaying it in your mind and wondering. (((Hugs)))
just try to let the replays go....nothing to be done about the past. Second guessing and replaying results in being more edgy and reactive, so that even little stuff feels huge.
Great blog, as usual, Keyz! I tried to read it yesterday and couldn't. I was starting to think someone had sabotaged your blog somehow! Glad to be able to get to it today
Dont let it get to you.Your such a sweet lady!
Naw...doesn't get to me...nothing much really does, I am pretty laid back, some of it is just so plain ol' goofy - you have to laugh at it !
There are rewarding moments...and that is what it's all about...being there to help.
Bullying is a horrible thing...
Keyz...let the Forum Suppliers handle the conflicts in their forums. It is their responsibility, they have moderating controls in their forums. No need for you to get stressed out, just PM them and let them know something is up that needs their attention.
Outside in the rest of the forums, when you all see a problem, yes - please use the report triangle ! Your help is appreciated !!
Remember ... don't feed the trolls...
((hugs))
and...that was a wonderful blog
There are rewarding moments...and that is what it's all about...being there to help.
Bullying is a horrible thing...
Keyz...let the Forum Suppliers handle the conflicts in their forums. It is their responsibility, they have moderating controls in their forums. No need for you to get stressed out, just PM them and let them know something is up that needs their attention.
Outside in the rest of the forums, when you all see a problem, yes - please use the report triangle ! Your help is appreciated !!
Remember ... don't feed the trolls...
((hugs))
and...that was a wonderful blog
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Sometimes stupid is what makes the world go around...at least for some!!! 
Hang in there Classy and good night.
Hang in there Classy and good night.
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