HA HA HA - I've been outside with a windchill of -40 to have my friggin smoke! 8-o I do stand in the garage, not that it makes a difference, once its cold, its BLOODY COLD! And you have to switch hands or they'll go NUMB!
Iowa gets pretty damn cold too so i always used to wear gloves, didn't have that issue then. Or just smoke quicker and get a good head rush and real dizzy from the smoke and the cold !!!
Menolly ..... my wife has one of them real sensitive noses. When i started
vaping in the house she only noticed it if she was within 3' of me when i exhaled a large amount of vapor. I can vap in the same room as her but most times i won't. I'll step into the kitchen or sit at the computer for 10 minutes. The first time i vaped in the car she didn't like that so i don't do that. I can appreciate the dislike of perfumes etc. I can go into bath and body etc but not for long. I hate walking
through the perfume sectiosn in dept stores but i do. It is all about compromise. Maybe if you show some compromise by trying a flavorless liquid for in the house. Then have flavored for using in other places. This way he'll see that you are trying and may be open to the idea and more flexible.
Check out
www.juicyliquid.com they have some flavorless liquid in VG and PG in most strengths. Pretty good prices too. To me VG has less of a chemical taste than PG so maybe that may be something to look into.
Good luck in whatever direction you go.