I am wondering if anyone here has adopted a child, because I was thinking in the future instead of having my own child to adopt one. I know there are plenty of kids out there that need the love and care of out there, and I would be willing to do it, but I have a few question's, and these question's run through my head a lot.
1) Were you worried that it would feel weird that since it was not your "own" child, by birth that you would not love it as much as your own? If so, how did you get over it?
2) Do you let the parent(s) visit the child?
3) How old is the child? I would like to do what my adopted aunt did with my cousin, adopted right from birth.
There is a few reason's I am asking this, and I have been open in the past about myself, so here it goes. My Girlfriend can not physically have children, and personally, with my history of depression, I would rather not pass it on to them. She also has a slight case of depression as well, so yeah, even if we could have a child we would not want to pass that on.
Like I said, I am just curious because I would rather adopt, but I am worried because of the bond you have from giving birth to the child, and the bond a father has as well with that child.
I know this does not belong here, on a vaping forum, but to be quite honest, besides my Aunt, who I rarely talk to, I do not know where else to ask this, because this is the only forum I belong on, and I trust a handful of you guy's on here that I can ask question's about something and tell you guy's about myself.
1) Were you worried that it would feel weird that since it was not your "own" child, by birth that you would not love it as much as your own? If so, how did you get over it?
2) Do you let the parent(s) visit the child?
3) How old is the child? I would like to do what my adopted aunt did with my cousin, adopted right from birth.
There is a few reason's I am asking this, and I have been open in the past about myself, so here it goes. My Girlfriend can not physically have children, and personally, with my history of depression, I would rather not pass it on to them. She also has a slight case of depression as well, so yeah, even if we could have a child we would not want to pass that on.
Like I said, I am just curious because I would rather adopt, but I am worried because of the bond you have from giving birth to the child, and the bond a father has as well with that child.
I know this does not belong here, on a vaping forum, but to be quite honest, besides my Aunt, who I rarely talk to, I do not know where else to ask this, because this is the only forum I belong on, and I trust a handful of you guy's on here that I can ask question's about something and tell you guy's about myself.