Certain bars in NYC don't allow it. They just ask us to stop and we do. Then we never go back. The truth is people see you vape and don't know what you're doing they assume it's a cig. If the person who sees you smokes they may "light up" out of confusion. It's stupid but understandable. Just remember you use to go outside to have a cigarette. It never use to bother you. If it does bother you to go outside FIND A NEW PLACE. I don't agree with the pub but i understand. If you're not producing giant clouds of vapor 90% of the time no one says anything. Keep that in mind. Maybe you should get her husband a kit. If he quits they'll be your best friend and who knows maybe you'll see an "E-CIG'S WELCOME" sign. Best of luck! 