I have observed that some people simply like to be as contrary as they can be as often as they can be, without any real discussion, just soapboxing and operating as though they have mental superiority over those they are speaking down to. They have a labels. Borish comes to mind. Several other labels come to mind as well.
Social pressure to not complain? LMAO. As we have seen in this thread, there are those who also operate with hidden agendas. Those who want V4L to look bad. I think it is fine to complain, once the reasonable and correct way to reslove an issue(s) is exhausted through the proper channels. It is my impression that often, that is not the case. It's really a very simple thing to understand. If a bartender puts a lime in my Corona after I asked him not to, I don't stand on a bar stool and tell everyone. I ask for a fruit free beer. Now if he does it again, and a third time, I might have reason to complain publically.
I have a lot of respect for the V4L team... they ALWAYS address these things with a modicum of professionalism that I find very refreshing... and sometimes IMO very difficult to do under some circumstances. You get more bees with honey that you do with vinegar.