One item from my "vacation"...
We had a steady stream of feral cats taking refuge under the deck this past brutal Winter. All came and went, except one. He/she (LOL!) has been here since December. We've been calling "it" Oreo, which is gender-neutral. Anyway, I am in a bit if a dilemma... I want to do what is right, but I also do NOT want to be a

heel.
The cat SHOULD be trapped, neutered/spayed, blood-tested and brought back. However, if the blood tests are positive for FeLV or FIV, the cat will be put down.
I understand the implications of NOT having it tested (danger to other cats' health, including one of ours that roams the property). But I also do not want to be the cause of that cat's untimely death. Cats are quite able to live long lives even if they have FeLV or FIV... we've had those as pets in the past.
So... I am in a bit of a spot on this. I cannot decide what to do.
This is him/her. As is evident as well, the bi-annual deck staining is in order and has been arranged: