Snails - Response on Threads Part 6
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not really! miracles are few and far between!
Well, he didn't cure them, that's for sure. Just visited....
Good morning non-mean snails. 
Piss off mean snails. (that includes passive aggressive ones. I fight mean/evil people where I find them. If they show up here, or act it here, they get an ear full. Tough.)
^^^ That's how to be direct and not passive aggressive.
If I were passive aggressive, I'd run around saying things like "Oh, I'm soooo sorry you had to hear that...your sensitive ears were probably offended by that-someone, but I'm all innocent, and I'm so sorry that YOU were hurt by what I really started, but pretend that someone else did it, and don't acknowledge that I'm a manipulative passive-aggressive reactive manipulator".
Which is really a form of ATTACK, and people should refute/rebuke such attacks adamantly. Particularly when they revolve around false-accusations and pretend-victim status that tries to "turn it around" and denies the initial attack.
Piss off mean snails. (that includes passive aggressive ones. I fight mean/evil people where I find them. If they show up here, or act it here, they get an ear full. Tough.)
^^^ That's how to be direct and not passive aggressive.
If I were passive aggressive, I'd run around saying things like "Oh, I'm soooo sorry you had to hear that...your sensitive ears were probably offended by that-someone, but I'm all innocent, and I'm so sorry that YOU were hurt by what I really started, but pretend that someone else did it, and don't acknowledge that I'm a manipulative passive-aggressive reactive manipulator".
Which is really a form of ATTACK, and people should refute/rebuke such attacks adamantly. Particularly when they revolve around false-accusations and pretend-victim status that tries to "turn it around" and denies the initial attack.
Take it easy on that knee, Fran.
Hope it warms up a bit. We've had decent weather, I'm surprised it didn't show up your way by now. :/
Hope it warms up a bit. We've had decent weather, I'm surprised it didn't show up your way by now. :/
http://worth1000.s3.amazonaws.com/submissions/553500/553925_2dfa_625x1000.jpggood morning, atty!i ordered a second shell for you!
exactly! 
because sometimes it's just a matter of perception
because sometimes it's just a matter of perception
And sometimes, it's reality.
The world's full of passive-aggressive people. All of us humans probably fall into that trap once in a while. But some people run their whole life that way, it's their M.O. They think that's how life works and how people should be. It's harmful, and they must be fought when they can't be avoided. And I'm not leaving this thread, so I have to hold ground, as I apparently can't avoid/evade. And Bear getting into the middle of it....wow. And he knows damn well he did, if he's honest about it.
EDIT: See also https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relational_aggression for a sub-set of passive-aggressive or even directly-aggressive stuff. OUTSIDE! is full of that stuff too. Sad.
The world's full of passive-aggressive people. All of us humans probably fall into that trap once in a while. But some people run their whole life that way, it's their M.O. They think that's how life works and how people should be. It's harmful, and they must be fought when they can't be avoided. And I'm not leaving this thread, so I have to hold ground, as I apparently can't avoid/evade. And Bear getting into the middle of it....wow. And he knows damn well he did, if he's honest about it.
EDIT: See also https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relational_aggression for a sub-set of passive-aggressive or even directly-aggressive stuff. OUTSIDE! is full of that stuff too. Sad.
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Got the message loud and clear, Atty. I am leaving the thread.
Thanks for the good conversations everyone, but I'm not dealing with this. And I'm not putting this thread in a downward spiral. It's been nice and I thank you for all your caring, but I can't do this.
It's coming up the stairs with a armful of wood that gets my knee. I haven't had to do that yet.
Well one good load of cordwood has been piled on the wood pile and I think that's enough for my back at the moment.
Well one good load of cordwood has been piled on the wood pile and I think that's enough for my back at the moment.
i think we're strong enough to deal with it, kat! maybe i'm wrong but it's worth a shot to work through this in an amicable manner.
I would like to see that happeni think we're strong enough to deal with it, kat! maybe i'm wrong but it's worth a shot to work through this in an amicable manner.
morning, classy we're ok in here -
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