Pouring here 

it's almost 2 years now that i have somebody coming for 5 hours mon - fri from 9am to 2pm to get dh out of the house. that doesn't help though getting him out of bed in the morning and to bed at night. i can see a big difference though since monday when he had to leave town because of his mom doing so badly (advanced alzheimer's, stopped eating). without that bit of exercise every day dh is even worse.Wasn't aware you had a helper.I was going to suggest it more than once though................
no luck so farAh ha,well I didn't know that. Hopefully your helper will get back soon. Can you get someone to fill in for awhile?
i'll make it for another couple of daysHope somebody comes though to help.