I'm thinking of Django Unchained.
What do you do if some people say it's amoral and violent and crass and that the over-use of the ...... is gratuitous and offensive, and others say it's brilliant and satisfying and that the use of the ...... is historically accurate and powerful in a good way?
Well, not to be obvious, but you weigh what people say in your mind, along with whatever else goes into decisions, decide if the experience might be worth your hard-earned cash, and you go see it. Then you know who you agree with. Or you don't, and you acknowledge that actually, frustratingly, you dunno, because you haven't.
And BOO on that person who washed out your mouth with soap. OT or not. C'mon over to my house, you can swear really terribly for 100 hours straight and I'll give you an M&M every time, cure you of that phobia you've got going.