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Steve, my husband...

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classwife

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Sorry I haven't updated yet today.
Still on ventilator, yesterdays surgery was inserting and leaving a tube in his right lung for draining...it is still making fluid.
He is resistant to the sedation, so I got to have yes & no conversation with him and explained again where he is and why.
He was trying to communicate, we tried pencil & paper but he can't hold the pencil.
I reminded him he has had over 31 years of marriage to learn sign language from me...would sure have come in handy now.
I only stayed for 3 hours today.
 

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Oh, (((Classy))) that does bring back memories to me of communicating with the pencil and paper, shaking of head :( Most likely he is going to have his own memories of what is going on right now and they won't be reality. But that will come later.

I am glad to know that you are taking breaks from the hospital. Something that I never did but certainly should have. You have to take care of yourself so that you will be better able to care for him when the time comes. Sending heartfelt hugs to you both.
 

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