Thank you each and everyone for all of your kind words and furever hugs, it means the world to me.
My maine coone is wandering the house looking for her, I think he knows, he gave her alot of "bumps & bruises" along the way, including a concussion at one time a few years back.
I started letting him outside this summer and while he doesn't stay out long, I suspect he brought someting into the house that he "shared" with her. I knew I shouldn't have let him out, but the dog was egging him on and he always stuck to the yard, so I thought what the heck, he & the dog stalked the rabbits, but the dog was faster.......go figure hu?
Both of the cats had been doctoring for a while & she just didn't have enough in her to fight it, I just didn't want her to suffer. While my maine coone is much bigger (not fat, just extremely long) he's down weight too and the vet just cant figure it out.
(((((HUGO HUGS TO ALL & THANK YOU!))))))))