I think a lot of it is psychological, the habit of smoking that is.
But in a way I sometimes think that just making things easier and encourging people to just "buy something else more" is starting to approximate the "I just want to take a Pill" that is so prevalent in the health care industry?
There has to be a certain amount of self-awareness, discipline, desire to reach goal and plan for that, etc.
One of the interesting things that made me think about this is that I had allen carr's very famous book up in the classies, The easy Way to Quit Smoking. I only asked for $5.
This book has sold billions........because it's so good. It's even good for losing weight, etc. It helps you get your mind in teh right place and examine some of your thoughts about stuff.
well, there were no takers. Almost 500 views.
If it had been $5 worth of coils it would have sold in first 5 minutes.
Nobody wants to do the work. The book was given to a friend who is vaping but struggling to put down the cigs. I read at least 20 of those sort of posts per day here, over 2 years now, yet nobody wanted the book.\
What do you make of that?![]()
vaping is great, and yes, it is harder. But if everything is supposed to be easy then there is no human endeavor left in the equation is there? I mean, just surviving everyday, cooking, working, shopping, requires quite a deal of effort and time.
There IS a reason why all successful professional and olympic athletes use sports psychologists. Its to keep their mind in shape, because the body only does 1/2 the work in any endeavor, and everyone knows that.
I guess I am still curious why nobody wanted the book in spite of fact that I read nothing but posts about people vaping but still not being able to put down the cigs. And the answer is always to "buy something".![]()
I know people have shopping addictions trying to "fill up" some other need, so I just don't ascribe to the buy something because it is really just an extension of the "take a pill" philosophy. I really believe you have to involve yourself and look within, figure out stuff sometimes, try to SOLVE the problem from where it originates----
My own personal experience was that all the times I tried to quit, because I thought I "ought to," "I should quit," etc, failed miserably. This time, after all these years (39!), I was just tired of the HASSLE OF SMOKING! The butts, the ashes, the stink, the going outdoors in freezing weather, the CONSTANT coughing and coughing up, the obscene cost, etc etc etc... so when I found something that closely approximated all the things I liked about smoking, and had none of the things I didn't, well that was an easy decision to make, and I WANTED TO MAKE IT. That's the real key, I think. If you try to quit because you "should," or you "ought to," or someone else thinks it would be a good thing to do, you'll never be able to do it. But if just once YOU decide that you REALLY WANT TO QUIT, it becomes very simple. No, the cravings don't just vanish; you have to work on banishing them, and e-cigs are a great help, but they're not the whole story -- you have to simply TAKE THE OPTION OFF THE TABLE. Or in terms of what I've heard in AA... "don't _____ even if your ... falls off." Drink, smoke, whatever it is you want to stop doing. If you remove the option from your own mind, that's about 99% of the battle.
But as long as there is even a shred of "well I'll only do it if I really NEED it" in your mind, your brain will MANUFACTURE a need, guaranteed.
So, vaping can be a bit of a hassle. So was smoking, and I think people forget that, and it's also obscenely expensive. Vaping isn't, or it doesn't have to be, if you can rein in your Shinyitis impulses to a minimum. Vaping is a terrifically effective key to unlock Smokers' Prison, but you still have to open the door and walk out, yourself -- no one can do it for you.
Andria