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ScandaLeX

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Sounds like his office assistant was one of those crafty gold digger types.
I'm also of the opinion, that if your cousin was there for him like that, and he wasn't for her, then she is way too good for him. Karma is a a nasty .....! He'll get his someday

Maybe....I never met his office assistant. Although to this day his kids love her. They've been married 20 yrs *I think*.
 

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Speaking of cats- I'm so sad. My son put his cat out. Cat has been getting out of the house & when he does decide to bring his ... in he pees on my sons' clothes- no one else's. just his.
I haven't had to do that yet. My "ocelot" (posted many pages ago) is the only pet that was solely mine. (purchased and care for myself/etc) I hope she has many years left. She turns 7 in a couple weeks. She's my baby. She really is the best thing ever. She lays next to me (is right now), cuddles with me, greets me when I come home, makes me laugh when I'm sad (corny, I know but she really seems to sense when I'm sad) and never messes or ruins furniture/etc.
Worst thing that ever happened regarding something like that was when my grandma had to put her dog down. I grew up with him even though I didn't live there. It's hard. I can only imagine it being your own.
 

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I think it just works if it's meant to work. The problem is that people get impatient and end up settling. My dad went from a miserable marriage with my mom straight into another relationship where she was moving in months after the divorce went through. Then they ended up miserable too and are now roommates who happen to be married. To the parents out there that think staying together is "best for the children"... we are smart and can tell when things aren't right. It also is far worse to see a broken relationship than divorced parents. I have little to no faith in relationships because of what I've seen. It's a BIG reason of why I cannot keep relationships with people or get too close.

I was the kid who grew up wishing his parents would have gotten divorced...in fact, looking back at it now, I probably would have been less messed up entering my adult years coming from a split family than what I did.
On the other side of the coin, though, when my first marriage was failing, it made it a lot easier to move on, knowing I didn't want my kids to have the life I did growing up. To this day, my ex and I get along better now than we did when we were married. They also never experience me fighting with their mom, and will never hear me bad mouth her in any way. I am sure it's not easy on the kids coming from a split family, but it has to be better than growing up on the front lines of a nuclear war.
 

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I was the kid who grew up wishing his parents would have gotten divorced...in fact, looking back at it now, I probably would have been less messed up entering my adult years coming from a split family than what I did.
On the other side of the coin, though, when my first marriage was failing, it made it a lot easier to move on, knowing I didn't want my kids to have the life I did growing up. To this day, my ex and I get along better now than we did when we were married. They also never experience me fighting with their mom, and will never hear me bad mouth her in any way. I am sure it's not easy on the kids coming from a split family, but it has to be better than growing up on the front lines of a nuclear war.
I don't remember my parents fighting... I just can't remember one time when they were married that they were actually happy. That can be just as damaging. I remember the first time my dad came to me and told me he was leaving my mom. It was the first time I saw him cry and it was because I was crying. He only stayed with her "because of us". They ended up getting back together and trying to make it work for "us". It was a couple years later when they finally split. To be honest I only think he split with her at that point because he found someone else (my stepmom). He swears they weren't seeing each other until the divorce but I know that's bull. He cheated on my mom just like he's cheated on his current wife. (another reason I can't trust men) But yeah... That goes to show you how karma works. My dad cheated on my mom w/ his current wife and they've been miserable for years. He claims he's "ok" with things now but in a platonic marriage, how is that possible?
 

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It is my understanding that when someone puts their pet "to sleep" they refer to it as putting their pet "down." Never heard "out" before. Maybe I've been saying it wrong???

No.. I get what you're seeing... I just really am confused now. If they out them out... as in outside... Why is that sad? Did the cat run away? It is too late/early for this!!
 

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It is not up to people to seek vengeance though, only God - pretty sure that's what scripture will tell you :)

Oh... No. "That" territory.
I do agree that people should not try to inflict punishment on someone as Karma tends to sort things out on its own. Usually people that do things like that end up bitter and hurting themselves.
 

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Oh... No. "That" territory.
I do agree that people should not try to inflict punishment on someone as Karma tends to sort things out on its own. Usually people that do things like that end up bitter and hurting themselves.

Ocey said "scripture" so I responded with "scripture." :)
 
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