Once again, I find it difficult to understand. I re-read the whole
thread. I don't perceive any aggression. Just people stating their disagreement and explaining why they disagree.
I begin, however, to believe that you confuse disagreement with disrespect. If so, again, I'm sorry - but I... disagree.
There is no psychological dilemma here: people have opinions, sometimes divergent.
And once again we are faced with the strange situation in which someone makes an assertion that is, at least, debatable and claims that expressions of disagreement or attempts at debating such assertion are a form of violence.
I will say this again. Based on this
thread, you are not a victim of any form of aggression.
I really hope that this attempt at positioning yourself as a victim is not a further attempt to generate conflict.