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sbdivemaster

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And thank you everyone for your comments. i just need to vent a little and this is helping me visualize my thought process and organize my rationale. i had no intention of dumping this situation on all of you, i just needed to 'get it out'.

No problem, LD. Hang in there, you'll work through it.

It's getting close to beer:30 here in Shangri La, so I can hear a hefeweizen calling me... I'll check in a bit later; it's The Wife's night out with "the girls" - so I can sit around on the couch, drinking a beer in my underwear.

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tiggerrts

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she is all sorts of backwards. called me on my lunch break yelling... doesnt want me to file the amended return because it will lower her assistance through fasfa when she goes back to school..... she has been out of school for 2 years. if she goes back it would be 1-3 classes at CC over the next year. these classes cost 200 + books. she would still qualify for some financial aide, and even if she didnt, the tax refund far exceeds the cost of these handful of low cost classes. i am beginning to think she is just nuts, she is incapable of reason and logic and simple math. my patience is gone. i love her and fully support her, but she is being extremely unreasonable, self centered and impossible to have calm discussions with..

And thank you everyone for your comments. i just need to vent a little and this is helping me visualize my thought process and organize my rationale. i had no intention of dumping this situation on all of you, i just needed to 'get it out'.

Tish great to see you back and settling down! Are you still central, or did you take a hike to another part of town?

Sleep on it and let it go tonight, if it is this strained nothing good will come of it tonight. Tell her you want to talk about it tomorrow. If you both are so worked up at the moment something may be said in the heat of that moment you regret later

Tomorrow take a pen and paper and show the numbers like you just described if need be, and prove that she can still go to school.
 

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You are right, i am trying to keep my cool so that i dont cause any unnecessary damage to our relationship.
I will have to show it to her on paper. cant argue against simplistic math, although she might and probably will. i have nearly 2 hours left at work, and am dreading going home. just hoping this whole thing blows over, that all the taxes get filed properly, and we can move past this rough few days..
Sleep on it and let it go tonight, if it is this strained nothing good will come of it tonight. Tell her you want to talk about it tomorrow. If you both are so worked up at the moment something may be said in the heat of that moment you regret later

Tomorrow take a pen and paper and show the numbers like you just described if need be, and prove that she can still go to school.
 

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What a day!!! Dealing NOW with my other credit card getting hit with fraudulent charges! UGH!!! I've been reading on Facebook where it's happening all over in our vaping community! Soooo SAD ... And such a pain to deal with! :-(

Hearing about this so much, it cant be just the vaping community.... I would imagine its anything online.. I really should keep a closer eye on my exposed card..
 

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06/10 Entry #2. . .

Another really long day traveling . . . Got caught up in early rush hour traffic and a bunch of crazy fools driving in "Blinding rain" . . . The worse being the truckers who insisted on driving in the middle lane throwing water off the raodway to block everyones view . . .:mad: :evil:

Time to catch-up reading what everyines else has been up to today . . . :D
 

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5? Anyone know for sure?

Anyway... burned the prints off my fingers recoiling my AGA. Those things really do get hot. Nice vape though, so I can let the burnination slide.

Can't see it killing my love for carto tanks though. Nothing beats the simplicity, taste, and th I get off my low res cartos in a VVV tank!
 

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Steves, just watched a 40 minute video on the tornado, Norman OK or close.

There was a small one went through Norman a while back. I know next time I'll just buy a ticket at Warren Theatre and go watch a movie. That place is all steel and concrete and took a direct hit and took minimal damage and is back open yet everything around it is toothpicks and rocks.
 

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06/10 Entry #3 . . .

@ "Schnarph" - Don't know why, but just knew where this was going . . . As for how to handle it or what you can do to have it not happen again - Stop looking like a "Sexy" Buffed Well Built Straight Man . . . YEA - Right . . . Good Luck with that one . . . OH - BTW "You" could also tell them you are already invloved with/married to a very jealous Man ("Me") that put the last guy who hit on you in a coma who is still in the hospital . . .Just Sayin' . . .;)

At least I have an extraction cleaner for the carpet, now if only it worked for him too lol.
ROTFLMAO + 1000 x's . . . .THANK YOU :D


Steves, just watched a 40 minute video on the tornado, Norman OK or close.

DITTO ^^^^^^^^ Edit: Never mind you just answered ^^^^^^^^^^^

@ "LD" - Good Luck . . . AND - Remeber to take a really deep breath before responding to anything . . . Just Sayin . . . ;)
 
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