I'm making an assumption here, that most members of this group are beyond their twenties. I'd like to assume y'all are mostly beyond your thirties, but I don't know if that would hold water. I'm 56. And, I've been unattached for a good long time. I find the prospect of dating to be a wee bit scary. Lord knows how such a thing could even be initiated. Tell me, please, how it happens? Seriously. I see attractive women my age range almost every day. I MUST assume they're happily married and that's fine. So, how's a guy supposed to progress from, "gee, she's attractive", to "wow, I'm so glad to get to know you".? I don't do the church thing. I wouldn't be happy with a lady I met under such misleading conditions. The grocery story thing is weird! I was never good at this, even when I was young, How do Old farts get together?