Why Vapers are getting a BAD NAME.

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Sorry but it's this type thinking that will ruin it for all of us. The more we push it on the uninformed the more they will push back. No difference if it's good bad or indifferent.

Why does it seem all the people with recent join dates think they know everything and say the exact opposite of reality?

Shipments were being seized in '09. Push BACK???
We exist, that was enough for them to START pushing. Even where they manage to pass vaping bans it's still not enough. It's not going to go away because you cower in a corner.

Nobody is saying to be rude but hiding or treating it like smoking isn't going to stop them from pushing. They're the ones that need to know we are going to push back the harder they push us.
 

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The point is, that vaping should be treated like ANY other public activity. Eating, drinking, wearing clothes, cologne, etc. Any of these activities can be considered offensive to some. I might offend a vegetarian with my big azz steak. The vegetarian is expected to "get over it". That is what being in Public is about.

In fact, that is EXACTLY how smoking was treated in the first half of the 20th century before the studies concluded that it was harmful.

ONLY when second hand smoke was proven (dubious at best) to be harmful, were all the laws banning it created. When I was a child, you could still smoke on a plane. Check out the movie Airplane or better yet Airport for a real shock to the system.

There is absolutely no reason vaping should not be given the same benefit of the doubt. You can smell my vape? Well I can smell your Old Spice...we're even...


It's complete horse crap, and the worst part is, fellow vapers are buying into it. This is NOT about me not being able to "wait" until I leave the store, or resturaunt. This is about my right, like any other persons right, to enjoy an activity that I enjoy in public that does not harm anyone around me. I'm not a drinker, but I don't tell someone who drinks to not drink because children are present and I don't want to "glamorize" drinking...

I do currently stealth vape in that I don't exhale a cloud. The sad part is, I shouldn't have to. The battle I am fighting is that one day, I WON'T have to.

These are the parts relevant to what I posted. I agree with the rest of what was posted. We don't know and neither do the anti vape army. I'm stating the more we do it indoors the more push back we get.
 

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Why does it seem all the people with recent join dates think they know everything and say the exact opposite of reality?

Shipments were being seized in '09. Push BACK???
We exist, that was enough for them to START pushing. Even where they manage to pass vaping bans it's still not enough. It's not going to go away because you cower in a corner.

Nobody is saying to be rude but hiding or treating it like smoking isn't going to stop them from pushing. They're the ones that need to know we are going to push back the harder they push us.

Sorry for voicing my opinion. I thought these forum were here for this. I'm guessing it's a noob mistake
 

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These are the parts relevant to what I posted. I agree with the rest of what was posted. We don't know and neither do the anti vape army. I'm stating the more we do it indoors the more push back we get.

So you think seizing shipments without a law and then declaring them an illegal medical device is less?

You don't have to be rude to vape inside. I was the last smoker in my family and I vape in all the non and ex-smokers' houses.
We can tell people it doesn't stink and any second hand risk is inconsequential all we want but if we voluntarily go out and huddle in the cold with the smokers we aren't winning any hearts and minds.
 

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So you think seizing shipments without a law and then declaring them an illegal medical device is less?

You don't have to be rude to vape inside. I was the last smoker in my family and I vape in all the non and ex-smokers' houses.
We can tell people it doesn't stink and any second hand risk is inconsequential all we want but if we voluntarily go out and huddle in the cold with the smokers we aren't winning any hearts and minds.

OMG did you even read my post?
 

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If vaping can't be done indoors vaping dies and smoking continues.
I lived in South Jersey, I know you have enough weather to discourage people from vaping if they have to go outside.

And speaking of Jersey, so you really think it was people vaping that caused the bans there?
Here's a thread title and date from another forum, "NJ Bans vaping on Thursday!!! 12-08-2009"

Exactly how many vapers do you think there were?
It's really not us, it's them.
 

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Sorry but it's this type thinking that will ruin it for all of us. The more we push it on the uninformed the more they will push back. No difference if it's good bad or indifferent.

Actually your type of thinking is ruining it all for us, and I'm not limiting it to just vaping.

I spent 10 1/2 years protecting the constitution and the freedoms that our founding fathers established in that document.

It has been over 70 years since the United States has seen a real threat to it's freedoms, and as a result, we have taken them for granted and we have even been conditioned to not fight for them. If your rights contradict what is Politically Correct, then they are forfeit.

The scary thing is this has happened before. And the people responsible for this were responsible for one of the most heinous crimes against humanity.

If you think I'm being over dramatic, then check out this article:

http://www.prisonplanet.com/articles/april2007/250407antismoking.htm

I love this line:
We live in a paranoid world overpopulated by ninnying jellyfish who dare not dip their toe in the water in case there's a law against it, it might upset someone, or it might be bad for their health.

And this:
It's all about control, it's all about letting you know who the bosses are. If the government can regulate personal habits and behavior, what's next? If the state is so concerned about our good health as they would have you believe, why not use the latest scientific advancements to remove that nasty aggressive gene that causes so much unhappiness? Well, you're causing those around you distress and harming their health so why not? Are your political opinions a mental illness? Are they harming society? Perhaps we should ban certain types of "free" speech that is offensive to others.

The biggest threats do our freedoms today are not external but internal. We continue to allow our "elected" officials to dictate what we should eat, wear, drink, and how we should think.

Never in my wildest dreams did I think cities in the united states would ban 32oz cokes or happy meals, but this has been done.

And yet you are unwilling to stand up for your rights because someone might fight back?

I'm sure glad you weren't in my military.
 
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Here's the question. If we as vapers can't agree that vaping in public poses no significant risk, then how will we convince an already skeptical public of the fact.

One of the things I've noticed is that I vape in public pretty much every day. I eat out a lot. I got to bars a lot (mostly dancing in two-step country bars). I vape in the grocery store from time to time, Home Depot, etc. I vape (stealth, most of the time) in various live performance theaters (and once, in a movie theater, but I don't do those often.) The science museum, several rodeos, the list goes on.

Nobody ever complains. I don't have people telling me "Quit that" or "You can't do that here" or "This is a non smoking area!" or whatever. It just doesn't happen. I've been vaping for something like 2 and a half years, off the cigs for over two, and nobody ever complains about my vaping in public when I'm out in public.

Then I come to ECF, and there are always a bunch of people, who claim to vape, telling me "You shouldn't do that, you should treat it like smoking".

I find that very, very odd.
 

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Anytime there's a problem with vaping in a public place it hurts the cause. I don't do it in stores eateries etc.. It's not a problem untill it's pushed in someones face. It bothers me that some do vape in these places. Not a health concern but the more selfish reason that we could just get regulation laws or banning of our beloved products. So if the wife and I go to dinner shopping whatever and its a few hours, I got to admit I've used a empty bathroom and done a stealth vape. I just won't push my vapor on others or want them to see me vaping indoors.

You are avoiding vaping in public, because you are worried that they will pass laws against vaping in public.

Does that actually make sense to you?

For one thing, you are already doing the thing that you are worried they will force you to do. For another, without educating the public, that regulation you are worried about is much more likely to happen.
 

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Then I come to ECF, and there are always a bunch of people, who claim to vape, telling me "You shouldn't do that, you should treat it like smoking".

I find that very, very odd.

I've started having that same idea.
I want to believe but when they won't listen to anything but "blame the vapers" it's making it hard.
 

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You are avoiding vaping in public, because you are worried that they will pass laws against vaping in public.

Does that actually make sense to you?

For one thing, you are already doing the thing that you are worried they will force you to do. For another, without educating the public, that regulation you are worried about is much more likely to happen.

Well really I'm new so what I think doesn't matter. Vaping while people are eating or in stores or places that don't allow vaping "Imo only" leads me to believe it gives ammo to the evil forces. I wasn't trying to upset the "long term members", it was my opinion. Like I said I'm new to the forums. I'll try not to post my opinions on this.
 

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Vaping while people are eating or in stores or places that don't allow vaping "Imo only" leads me to believe it gives ammo to the evil forces.

I don't recall anyone advocating vaping where it is specifically prohibited. That's rather different vaping where smoking is disallowed, or so it seems to me. Should we make the assumption that something is prohibited simply because we are not specifically permitted to do it.

I can't really say your opinion is better or worse based on nothing but post count and join date.
 

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Well really I'm new so what I think doesn't matter. Vaping while people are eating or in stores or places that don't allow vaping "Imo only" leads me to believe it gives ammo to the evil forces. I wasn't trying to upset the "long term members", it was my opinion. Like I said I'm new to the forums. I'll try not to post my opinions on this.

You are free to post your opinions. (And others are free to disagree and discuss.)

So how did you arrive at these opinions when NJ has had a vaping ban? Have you seen people vaping in a disruptive manner while others were eating (simply vaping while others are eating somewhere is not bothersome), in stores or places that don't allow vaping? I have only seen people vaping in a vape shop.
The only time I've run into a vaper in the wild was in a restaurant, I asked if I could vape, she got the manager, he came out and told me no and showed me his ecig. Admittedly I don't get out much.

I do know when I was in a little meet-n-teach at the vape shop I could see how the smell would be annoying if you had 10-30 vaping and not caring how big of clouds they blow in a restaurant but I'm not seeing those vapers all in the same restaurant.
 

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In both my opinion and experience of vaping to date, the argument is a losing battle. For those who say don't vape indoors. With the politics and superficial judgment of how can we possibly manage vaping among civilized society, it may appear like a win if it were banned. No real doubt about that. But it would be superficial in the sense that it really wouldn't prevent many from doing it, and many (many) more from never knowing it was done all around them.

It is that kind of activity.

ONLY when second hand smoke was proven (dubious at best) to be harmful, were all the laws banning it created. When I was a child, you could still smoke on a plane. Check out the movie Airplane or better yet Airport for a real shock to the system.

There is absolutely no reason vaping should not be given the same benefit of the doubt. You can smell my vape? Well I can smell your Old Spice...we're even...

In my experience, this is not even. Was hanging with the fellas tonight playing cards and for umpteenth time I was openly vaping around all of them. All people who would never allow someone to smoke indoors around them in their own house. I not only know this as a current smoker, but when I was the one that was cold turkey (for 8 years) and 3 or 4 of them smoked, they then had attitude of okay in own house. Me, as non smoker, allowed them to smoke in my house. Designated area, but I had very little issue with that as a non-smoker, quitting for a substantial amount of time. Yet, none of these people vape now, and only a couple smoke still but not regularly. None would allow smoking and of all people I currently know, I pretty much know no one that allows smoking indoors in their place. Yet, at cards tonight I asked for my 4th or so time if my vape ever bothers them, and all said no, not even a little bit. One said sometimes the smell but rarely.

IMO, it is more like BO, and not the OMG is that bad BO, but the kind that no one else in the room can smell it, but that one person claims they can, and so that ought to be enough for the person, with BO, to have to depart the area. Which doesn't happen. We don't live in that world. But that is equivalent to what vaping is like in terms of how pungent of an odor are we actually talking about whenever anyone discusses the topic of vaping around other humans. Sometimes, rarely, it can be like the pungent OMG bad BO, most of time it is not. And in my experience I'm vaping Cinnamon, Cucumber, and umpteen other flavors that vapers know, has a distinctive taste. But non vapers don't truly, nor always, detect it like a vaper could or does.

Though, one could say BO is involuntary....

The maddening thing is that e-cigs are being banned and regulated PRIOR to studies being performed. This doesn't happen to suppliments, this does not happen to any other consumer good at all. It's the other way around....Never in history has an item, made of ingredients already classified by the FDA as generally safe, been banned. And even legislators are smart enough not to argue this point scientifically. Instead they use half truths about glamorizing smoking, normallizing nicotine use, and targeting children. All while out of the other side of their mouth they continue to decrminalize and in some cases legalize the recreational use of another commonly smoked product...

Some how a apple flavored e-liquid is marketed to children, but an apple flavored vodka is not.

It's complete horse crap, and the worst part is, fellow vapers are buying into it. This is NOT about me not being able to "wait" until I leave the store, or resturaunt. This is about my right, like any other persons right, to enjoy an activity that I enjoy in public that does not harm anyone around me. I'm not a drinker, but I don't tell someone who drinks to not drink because children are present and I don't want to "glamorize" drinking...

I do currently stealth vape in that I don't exhale a cloud. The sad part is, I shouldn't have to. The battle I am fighting is that one day, I WON'T have to.

To me, the bold part is the worst part and most maddening part. Not only buying into it, but openly blaming us who hold the position of 'vape everywhere' or somewhere where smoking is not permitted. And best as I can tell, there is NOTHING we could say to have that position conclude otherwise.

Yet, it is quite simply the tip of the iceberg. Cause let's take flavors for example. Let's say 85% to 100% of the people on this forum are on the pro vaper side when it comes to 'should an abundance of flavors be legal in the vaping world?' At best it is 100% that we all here agree on that. I'm think it could be slightly less. But we all understand the politics, the tactics, yadda yadda yadda. People who vape and don't ever go online might not hold to the view we do on that and could, I would say quite plausibly, be swayed by the position of, "it is very disrespectful to the norms of society to have that many flavors. Especially kiddie flavors. Yep, that's just wrong. I hope they change that. That's one issue where I think vapers are giving themselves a bad name and shooting themselves in the foot."

Again, none of us here probably look at it this way, but I'm think some, fellow vapers, for sure do.

And right on down the line. Some vapers truly think nicotine ought to be limited. "Heck," they might say, "I never go above 6 mg, so why would anyone need more than 12. That is the place to draw the line, otherwise vapers are just giving themselves a bad name/character to think a human needs that much at one time. I mean pushing on that issue just makes us all look like addicts."

And gear, we all debate that endlessly here, so that's an issue we could roll over on, I'd say easily. I do cigalikes, but if those were banned tomorrow and rest of the devices were deemed hunky dory (for now), I reckon 80% of vapers would be like, "that stinks, how dare they" while 20% (at least) would be like, "sucks to be a cigalike user, but doesn't hurt me. Cigalikes just gave the whole vaping thing a bad name anyway. Good riddance."

There's no issue we 100% agree on as a community and so it's maddening to me that it could all be taken away (de fact ban) and at least some vapers would be like, "well I saw that coming given that those certain vapers gave us a bad name."

Or more maddening, that many vapers could be like, "regulations on x, y and z are smart for the future of vaping (i.e. limiting nic) and the bans on p, d and q are all good moves for the future of vaping. I'm proud as a vaper that they made all those changes. People don't need to be vaping indoors anyway. And all those flavors were just asking to be banned, how could you not see that?"

And with all that said, I still see the anti-vaper as fighting an ultimately losing battle. People are going to vape for the rest of your lifetime, and your great grandkids lifetime. They will be vaping flavors of all sorts. They'll be doing the activity indoors, outdoors, everywhere (hospitals being one prime example). They'll be able to get whatever level of nicotine they desire. And people not currently 18, who have never ever smoked, and never ever will, will at some point be vaping. Not even born yet, and some day they' will be vaping.

Yeah, I'd say the battle is a losing one when confronted with reality. Regardless of a (superficial) political ban.

People can be vaping all around you, and yet be hidden so easily, non-vapers may never have a clue.

It's that kind of activity.
 

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I've been a member of a few non vape forums for quite a while. I can understand that 'noobs' like myself might ask questions that were asked 100 times or think they know everything based on a product description and a YouTube video. I know how frustrating that can be to long time members. But I feel in this case it's the uninformed 'noobs' that more accurately paint a picture of what the majority of people might think about vaporizing. Wether this majority is uninformed, misinformed or brainwashed is irrelevant. I've been in bars where pushing and shoving breaks out amongst a crowd of people and almost nobody around will jump in or try to stop it unless they're with the people involved. They back away. Why? Because most people don't like confrontation and will avoid it at all costs. Obviously this example is a little more extreme when compared to vapers. What I'm driving at here is just because Joe Blow doesn't confront you about vaping doesn't mean he isn't being influenced in some way about it, be it positive or negative. It certainly doesn't mean he is definitely 100% fine with it. Hell, smokers sometimes ask if their smoke bothers me (indoors) and I say "no" when it actually does. That's human nature for some people. With that said, after reading this thread further, my thoughts on the situation have somewhat changed. Do I think public vaping is necessary to educate people on the matter in some way? Yes, I guess I do now. Do I think it will work? Definitely not on it's own. I won't be blowing clouds in bars but I will be doing my part to at least make my vape visible at times, explain a bit to anyone who seems interested and maybe encourage a few people to get on board.

P.S. The first time I ever used an e-cigg at a bar, I was asked to go outside. Even after I explained what it was. This happened again at a second bar the same night so it does occur. I've also received dirty looks in other indoor places while using them so my opinions do not go unjustified.
 

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If it was me I think I would ask whoever owns the place on how they feel about people vaping in their establishment. I usually carry my SVD or eVic when I am out. I personally don't really like the cig-a-likes cause they always are to harsh to my throat. Plus I would rather answer questions that someone just assume I'm smoking a cig because of what they see in a instant. I work for walmart and all of my stores management team has seen me with my PV and hasn't said anything to me about it. I have had people give me dirty looks and say that it is unsafe. When someone tells me that it is unsafe I usually just respond with so is breathing the air now days with a lot of the people in this area driving around in there big SUV's and large trucks.
 
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