So the simple answer is to take a life, and it is a life. When I said counseling, I should have mentioned prior to conception. Then there is the "have another kid to up the family assistance group" and there are far too many of those out there which result in those ignored kids rather than another abortion, or simpler still, simple birth control. Again, abortion or "pro choice" is not supposed to be birth control is what I am getting at, but that's what it has turned into and, to me, that's just plain wrong in every sense.