I'm sort of looking at it getting mugged and then finding the mugger's wallet with the money he stole from you. The company was going to let you hang in the wind.
That is a pretty good analogy! ... I would also like to add that the vendor not only unresponsive with me, but also unresponsive to Paypal. When you open a Paypal dispute, Paypal notifies the vendor of the same and offers both the buyer and seller the opportunity to first "work it out" before the dispute is actually escalated to a full claim. The dispute only becomes an official claim when and if the buyer and seller cannot reach a resolution amongst themselves.
In my case I could not reach a resolution with the vendor because the vendor chose not only ignore my attempts to reach a resolution, but also completely ignored Paypals dispute inquiry and requests for further information regarding the transaction. When the vendor did not respond to the initial dispute after 7 business days, the dispute was then escalated to a claim. 20 days after the dispute was escalated, Paypal emailed myself, as well as the vendor to advise that they were not yet able to reach a decision on this dispute due to a lack information on the part of the vendor ... and still the vendor did not respond to myself or Paypal.
After 10 more days of unresponsiveness from the vendor, and nothing other than a UPS status which at least verified that I did not in fact at that time (approx 45 days post order ) receive this order, Paypal decided in my favor.
What would I have to feel guilty or bad about?? I am the fool that sat for 45+ days trying to work something out with a vendor who couldn't even be bothered to respond to Me or an official Paypal dispute claim .... Yeah, my conscience is so clear ;-)
... and I think it is fair to say that the vendor OBVIOUSLY couldn't care less about all this, and it's even more fair to say that the outcome of these events are an equal reflection of the Vendors Karma as well
Happy Happy New Year to ALL!