Recently I've been rejected by two women in a row, feels so down. What do you do to recover from this?
anyone here ever been rejected by two women in a row?
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Currently you are at 0% success rate. Do what we used to do in our single/partying days. Never let the reject rate go below 50%, so if you get rejection from a supermodel class of target, lower expectations on the fly and keep at it. Remember that the sample size is very important if you are using the hit/miss ratio as a metric. Give it a shot and pretty soon the numbers will not look so dismal
Currently you are at 0% success rate. Do what we used to do in our single/partying days. Never let the reject rate go below 50%, so if you get rejection from a supermodel class of target, lower expectations on the fly and keep at it. Remember that the sample size is very important if you are using the hit/miss ratio as a metric. Give it a shot and pretty soon the numbers will not look so dismal
Thanks. I'm actually doing better than 0% success rate, more like 50% hit/miss ratio overall, if counting my past experiences with other women. It's just the recent two rejections so close together is a big downer.
BTW, you mentioned to never let the rejection rate to go below 50%, do you mean for it to never go ABOVE 50% (rejection rate)? Anyway, 50% rejection rate is not that bad is it?
Bad news: Rejections rot.
Good News: They don't count. Count the successes.
If you get rejected by 100 women, and 1 accepts, and she turns into "The future Mrs. quietvibes"...that's a win. The rest don't count.
I know it kills the ego...but get past it. Say "their loss. They'll never know they missed out".
Good News: They don't count. Count the successes.
If you get rejected by 100 women, and 1 accepts, and she turns into "The future Mrs. quietvibes"...that's a win. The rest don't count.
I know it kills the ego...but get past it. Say "their loss. They'll never know they missed out".
quietvibes said:
Well you gotta take things into perspective, 50% and higher success rate is pretty stellar for a single guy out on the town. If you log close to 100% that means 1 of 2 things,
1. You are Rasputin, but then you would not be posting here.
2. The expectations are waay too low and need re-targeting
I've been rejected by more women then that in one night...
Be fearless and don't attach yourself to the outcome. You will find what you are looking for eventually.
Be fearless and don't attach yourself to the outcome. You will find what you are looking for eventually.
Maybe you need to examine where you are conducting your search. Expand your exposure to greater numbers and types of gathering places. Think of it as fishing. If all you are catching is Perch and your target is Rainbow Trout, you need to move to a more likely location.
Maybe you need a platonic girl friend who can help you answer this question. If she is honest, she can tell you why and offer some suggestions for developing your strengths and smoothing out the rest. Ask the last two why they threw you back and urge them to be honest. Call it an exit interview.
Maybe you need a platonic girl friend who can help you answer this question. If she is honest, she can tell you why and offer some suggestions for developing your strengths and smoothing out the rest. Ask the last two why they threw you back and urge them to be honest. Call it an exit interview.
anyone here ever been rejected by two women in a row?
Never had the opportunity to line 'em up for such a probability!
Never had the opportunity to line 'em up for such a probability!
....and that night over at Johnnies place, well this chic got up a she slapped Johnnies face. Man, we just fell about the place! If that chic don't want to know, forget her!!!!!
Hi QV. I doubt that you would post this if you weren't really needing to talk to someone about it. The comments here are all valid yet to really respond, one would have to know more about the circumstances and YOU.
If you seriously need to talk to someone about this, PM me.
Otherwise, if you have a good lady FRIEND, ask her what she thinks...
If you seriously need to talk to someone about this, PM me.
Otherwise, if you have a good lady FRIEND, ask her what she thinks...
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