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wanderlust

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He has said that he is (I am). And as a responsible creator he has provided the alternatives. We decide. We now live in a fallen world for a short time as a result of our choices. The creator forsaw this and from the beginning made arrangements for redemption. I know, I didn't choose this suffering but I choose to believe that this suffering is not wasted. Do I understand it all? No, half the time I'm not sure why I do the things I do. But I refuse to believe that it's all a waste of time. I can't see the big picture. I have a good friend, Scott who suffers from cerebral palsy (sp) and is one of the most positive people I have ever met. Scott has become an ordained minister and has a joy and love for God like almost no one else. Did he choose to have his disease? No. Would he choose to be relieved of his illness? Yes. He believes all things work to the greater good for those in Christ. I find it difficult to argue with him. I think it's probably more cruel to think these things (sufferings) have no purpose.
 

Kate

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He has said that he is (I am). And as a responsible creator he has provided the alternatives. We decide. ...

None of us decided, that's my point, your god supposedly decided for us that we should exist. There is no way to argue that the initial creative impulse is for the good of the created.

He created good and evil. They came from the same source - he is responsible for them.

He favours some and projects evil on others. He punishes.

He is inconsistent with ethical and good standards of behaviour and you should be ashamed to try to justify such magnitude of suffering.

Believe what you want but don't judge me for thinking you are mad.
 

wanderlust

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Alas m'dear Kate I don't think you are mad (that would be judging). Maybe a little angry, not judging but just making an observation. Jesus said God is love. Perhaps we should just leave it at that. But you keep talking about "your god." I'm just saying find the God that is and don't take anyone else's version without experiencing it for yourself.
 

Kate

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Sorry I'm coming across as angry Wanderlust, I apologise. This is something that's had a dramatic influence on my life and I have thought deeply about many of the issues we are discussing. It's not really anger so much as passion. Well, maybe being judged or being preached to by evangelists can wind me up but if someone intends well I can't hold it against them for too long, I just don't think preaching helps their case.

I agree that this is a healthy view and back it 100% - "I'm just saying find the God that is and don't take anyone else's version without experiencing it for yourself."

For the record, my understanding of Jesus is that he's one of the goodies and I wouldn't want to give the idea that I thought he was a bad person.

It's the primal one god ideas that I've come across that don't add up for me. Why would a single consciousness choose to fragment and initiate such immense collective pain. Unless it wasn't intelligent, pure or conscious in the sense we use the words.

Some of my own personal role models: Buddha, Jesus, Martin Luther King Jr, Gandhi, suffragettes and collectivists.

(By the way, I am certifiably mad :p)
 

wanderlust

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I don't know the answer. I have two children and they are a product of the love my wife and I share. We made a decision to have children and I suppose that was a selfish act. We really wanted to share the love we've known. I would do just about anythinig for my children and with the first one I'm afraid I sometimes did too much. I didn't want them to suffer any pain. I could tell her the stove was hot and would hurt until I was blue in the face. She would eventually sneak around and touch it. After enough of these experiences she eventually at least listened well enough to consider the act she contemplated. She is still hardheaded though. I love her with all my heart and yet can't give her a painfree existance. She has to live her own life with all its ups and downs. I'll always love my children; no matter the choices they make. And it always pains me to see their suffering, but I also know it's necessary. Have you ever read "Hind's Feet on High Places?" If not I would suggest you check it out. It's a good short read and very inspirational whether one believes in God or not. Kate I hope you know there is no offense taken on my part and I try not to be offending.
 

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You know what I find remarkable is that people don't believe in a creator. Is it easier to assume that from nothing at least two particles appeared and in the vast emptiness of nothing happended to collide into each other and created all the order that exists today? To me it's easier to accept the notion of Intelligent Design and wonder about the mystery and majesty of the creator.
 
Healthy people are good/good is balance and health, the incentive is feeling good and well. Unhealthy people create and experience evil/evil is bad health.

Ethics are a far more healthy (good), rational and effective way to teach citizenship and desirable behaviour.

It wasn't us that created evil, it was you apparently and your disordered teachings and stalking are very evil/unhealthy. You're nothing but dissonance, loss of mind and irresponsibility.

Hi Kate. I'm intrigued by what you say. Can you give us some sources on the ethics and health? I know you bashed Frankl, do you have anything for us? Which evil God was it that slit your throat?
 
Webster defines good as "To any useful end or purpose; serviceable: Wholesome; right; virtuous; sufficient. Bad is defined as "The opposite of good; wicked; immoral; infirm; injurious; imperfect." Christians believe we were created good and made the decision to sin and consequently became bad. God is perfect, defined by Webster as "Finished, complete, consumate; not defective." Can good and bad exist together? Isn't that the paradox? Like two sides of a coin they will always be seperated by a gulf? That is the position mankind finds himself in. We are defective. No good work will qualify according to Christianity. Because bad resides within us. Look at the story of Lazarus and the rich man. Obviously the rich man was good by our standards because he wanted to tell his family of what would befall them. Being "good" is just not good enough. We are all sinners; however the believer is a sinner saved by grace (defined by Webster as "mercy, pecuiliar priviliege") or as Christianity defines grace as God's Riches at Christ's Expense. Does that mean the believer will never sin again? No, because we are still defective and perfected only through Jesus. We can not in any other way "merit" that perfection than believing on one who was perfect to make intercesion for us. That's the forgiveness part we receive as a gift (paid for by Jesus) that is freely offered to humanity. In Jewish tradition; refusing a gift dishonors the giver. Is humanity allowed to do that? Absolutely but the natural consequence exists of being absent from God. As a believer we are still bound by the earthly defective body and sin. We seek God's forgiveness and repent. We try to become more good on a daily basis until we are called home. Can we be assured of our salvation despite being defective? Yes, and such reassurance is a great comfort to the believer. I don't think any other religion offers that kind of assurance. Most seem to require our works or rituals and offer a big "maybe." If we could become good on our own there would be no need for Jesus. Remember we are exploring the heavenly things and trying to describe it in human terms. Do I understand all there is about God? No, I wouldn't be able to believe in a god that I fully understood. That would have been a god of my own creation (fallible and defective). We owe it to ourselves to find the God that is and establish a personal relationship. We have a lifetime to do this afterall.

Thank you.
 

Kate

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... Have you ever read "Hind's Feet on High Places?" If not I would suggest you check it out. It's a good short read and very inspirational whether one believes in God or not. Kate I hope you know there is no offense taken on my part and I try not to be offending.


No, I haven't read that, maybe I'll look it up, thanks :)

I don't think either of us mean offence or disrespect and I like hearing your views, thanks for chatting with me.

Kids can be a blessing, I know that, I bet you're a good dad.
 
He has said that he is (I am). And as a responsible creator he has provided the alternatives. We decide. We now live in a fallen world for a short time as a result of our choices. The creator forsaw this and from the beginning made arrangements for redemption. I know, I didn't choose this suffering but I choose to believe that this suffering is not wasted. Do I understand it all? No, half the time I'm not sure why I do the things I do. But I refuse to believe that it's all a waste of time. I can't see the big picture. I have a good friend, Scott who suffers from cerebral palsy (sp) and is one of the most positive people I have ever met. Scott has become an ordained minister and has a joy and love for God like almost no one else. Did he choose to have his disease? No. Would he choose to be relieved of his illness? Yes. He believes all things work to the greater good for those in Christ. I find it difficult to argue with him. I think it's probably more cruel to think these things (sufferings) have no purpose.

Thanks again.
 

Kate

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Hi Kate. I'm intrigued by what you say. Can you give us some sources on the ethics and health? I know you bashed Frankl, do you have anything for us? Which evil God was it that slit your throat?

There's some good information about ethics here - http://www.bbc.co.uk/ethics/lying/lying_1.shtml

Who bashed Frankl? I don't even know who that is :confused:

It was the Abrahamic, one god that had me cut my throat.
 

surbitonPete

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I am afraid I just get frustrated by it all.....you could talk forever to someone who 'believes' in something that cannot be proved and the conversation just goes around and around in circles. They can keep going on and on about the things that 'prove' their beliefs but when it comes down to it there is absolutely nothing at all that proves anything.
Loads of different religions, with loads of different views .....highly intelligent people in all of them 'believing' they know the answers ....the fact is a jellyfish probably knows just as much as we do about the meaning of it all.
 

Tallgirl1974

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I am afraid I just get frustrated by it all.....you could talk forever to someone who 'believes' in something that cannot be proved and the conversation just goes around and around in circles. They can keep going on and on about the things that 'prove' their beliefs but when it comes down to it there is absolutely nothing at all that proves anything.
Loads of different religions, with loads of different views .....highly intelligent people in all of them 'believing' they know the answers ....the fact is a jellyfish probably knows just as much as we do about the meaning of it all.

I think debate or discussions lead to thinking on new levels and help secure a believer in their faith or a non-believer in their lack of it. I like to reevaluate my thoughts/opinions from time to time. I always think that maybe this time someone will say something profound enough to way me to their side. If I can wade thru the platitudes and diatribes that is.
 

surbitonPete

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The thing that I can't help thinking is that if there is a 'creater' of everything.....he/she/it would be just as hopelessly confused as we are about why they exist and how they came into being and even worse than that ..wouldn't have anyone else to talk to about it!! ...being the only one of your kind would be very lonely.
 
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