Are you religious?

How would you describe yourself?

  • Religious

  • Spiritual

  • Athiest

  • Agnostic

  • Anti Religious

  • Humanist

  • Esmoking is my only faith ;)

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Caesarea

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I would think Religion, has been (and still is) one the worst institutions for causing gay people to feel bad about themselves and to become suicidal..Religions stir up their followers into believing it's wrong and against the will of god and all that crap.

I was surprised to see it emerge in this forum.

C.
 
Sorry to hear that Janoke, it sounds pretty rough.



Please could you tell me what you meant when you said this, I don't understand:

My apologies if it wasn't you. My bad, then. I just think Frankl was the best shrink that ever lived. R.D. Laing was also a good read from the UK. Both helped me a lot. My brother doesn't get it. He's just to wrapped up in his "entitlements". He's 6' 2" 210 lbs, healthy as a horse and gets Food Stamps, Welfare, tranquilizers and medical marijuana.
 
My apologies if it wasn't you. My bad, then. I just think Frankl was the best shrink that ever lived. R.D. Laing was also a good read from the UK. Both helped me a lot....

I believe the G-man called Frankl one of his spammers(#416) in response to Mamu's original post and I said to "leave Frankl out of it" (#432).

Let me clarify: I was not bashing Viktor Frankl. I believed G-man's comment was inpertinent and cold-hearted and I found it offensive.

BTW: Great discourse in this topic today. Well done all!
 
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Caesarea

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My apologies if it wasn't you. My bad, then. I just think Frankl was the best shrink that ever lived. R.D. Laing was also a good read from the UK. Both helped me a lot. My brother doesn't get it. He's just to wrapped up in his "entitlements". He's 6' 2" 210 lbs, healthy as a horse and gets Food Stamps, Welfare, tranquilizers and medical marijuana.

Haven't read Laing for ages, but can endorse the value of reading as a way to move forward.

Best,

C.
 

bigeyes

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My dad tried to kill himself when I was 11 years old. I was the one who found him OD'd on sleeping pills after his business went south and we were broke. I didn't know about the business until years later. I called a doctor, the doctor called an ambulance. He was in a coma for a month. I was shuttled off to my grandparent's with my brother for a "vacation". Although my dad made it after months and years of therapy and returned to being one of the all time greatest guys to ever live, I never left that "vacation" in my head. My brother never left it period. Got a vasectomy, uses every drug in the book and is generally one of the most arrogant, depressed, self-entitled and angry folks you could ever want to meet. Every shrink, program and therapist he goes to is a '..... who can't possibly understand him or what he's been through". Not to mention myself who went through the same thing and more! From the age of 11, I almost lost my dad, but I lost my only brother (who was my best friend) to a living death.
It's the gift that keeps on giving, isn't it?

My now adopted daughter's bio-mother killed herself when she was 6, and she was the one who found her. Leading up to that she saw her carted off in ambulances or by the police so many times she thinks that sort of thing is normal. She's been diagnosed with an attachment disorder, which is a truly frustrating and frightening thing to deal with. Anger, entitlement, lying, stealing, crazy behavior, all part of the package.

After years of therapy I sometimes think she'll never have her head on straight. Sometimes I'm really angry with her late mother, but the person I'm most angry with is her grandmother who pretty much screwed up all of her kids. All of them have mental health issues, addictions, and screwed up children who no amount of therapy seems to help.

I always used to think there was a higher power who had a plan for all of us, but it's hard to think this kind of cr@p could possibly be part of a great plan, yk? What possible purpose could this serve? Seems pretty cruel to me.
 

Kate

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Suicide really is an awful tragedy for everyone :(

I have often wanted to be dead but never thought I'd do it because of the impact it would have on other people. I really didn't think I was the sort of person who could subject anyone else to that but one day when I was very ill I was told that an ex partner had died - someone I loved dearly in what I thought was a spiritual way. I don't remember the thought processes that led me to cutting myself but it's not something I would have done if I'd been in control of my mind.

You're getting your multis mixed up Janoke.
 

Kate

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He posted a message as God under his JJ user account and deleted it when he realied he'd mixed up.


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Who is that masked troller?

I wonder what their main account name is.
 
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